Tag: curvy

Good Day Sunshine

Posted on by cejalaval

http://Good Day Sunshine

I’m usually pretty good at figuring things out.  If I put my mind to it, and keep experimenting, I can generally teach myself how to do at least a passable job at something.  However, I’m becoming increasingly frustrated with overlays for my pix.  I really REALLY want to learn because it’s those little touches I see added here on FlickR that often turn a pic from really good to WOW!  Although I’ve started adding a few things here and there, I think in many cases they’re looking a bit forced rather than just a natural result of the shot.  Part of the issue is that I don’t have Photoshop; instead I have Paintshop Pro, which has easily met all my relatively minor photoediting needs until now.  Just so frustrating!!!  If anyone sees this who is willing to share some tips, I’d really REALLY appreciate it!  I understand my limitations, and know that not every shot is going to be a winner, so it would be nice to be able to help them along just that little bit without spending hours to achieve relatively little or nothing at all…  Sighs, I definitely think I need a dose of sea and sun on the Mediterranean, but since that’s not likely any time soon, I guess I’ll go shop instead! Happy Monday!

  • Outfit:  Hawker’s House Fashion – Ladies Mesh Sherry Linen Dress, in Coral Ombre.  The texture of this dress is a standout, used on a perfectly styled casual belted dress with a slit on one side, to create a lovely late summer dress perfect for those last days in the sun! Sized for Tonic, Slink HG/P, Belleza F/I/V, Ocacin, TMP, Maitreya, & Classic XS-L.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the September Swank Event, open Sept 7th – 30th.
  • Head:  GENUS Project – Strong Face (gift version)
  • Body: Tonic – Curvy Beauty (worn with Booty Control), in the new updated version.  Truly the most natural curves on the grid with options to add that extra oomph how & if you want it, as well as others to minimize the bust &/or the butt.  With Tonic, you can truly customize the look of your body!
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Isla in Mocca
  • Hair:  TRUTH – Reyane
  • Eyes:  Avi-Glam – Luminous Eyes in Ivy
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega); DS’Elles – Freckle Body (Omega)
  • Makeup:  DS’Elles – Pucker Up Lipgloss
  • Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer – Savannah Bangles & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  WetCat – ‘Shades’ Sunglasses Pose Set
  • Location:  Soul2Soul Mediterranean

A spot of warmth

Posted on by cejalaval

http://Slipping into Fall

Well I wanted to experience one last fall before I moved to Florida, and it looks like I’m definitely getting my wish!  There’s a definite feel of fall in the air; in fact, I’m finding it downright chilly in the evenings to the point where I’ve had to “upgrade” to warmer pjs and socks at night rather than my light little summer nightgown.  Brrrr!  When you find those spots of warm sunshine, you can’t help but stop and soak it in, feeling that nip all around that perfect spot of warmth.  It’s so beautiful and invigorating, it almost makes me start questioning why we chose to move… and then I try to move any joint at all, and my arthritis screams from the cold, reminding me that THAT’S why I want to get out of both the cold and the fluctuating temperatures.  As for the move, things are definitely “moving” along; should be another 4 weeks or so and we’re off!  And if I feel that tug at my heartstrings about leaving the beauty of fall behind, all I need is to remind myself that I have it here on the grid.  (And no, it’s not anywhere near the same, but it’s not as painful either!)  Happy weekend shopping!

  • Outfit:  AnaSTyle – Lola.  A perfect jeans outfit for when that hint of fall is in the air!  The solid color tee (available in 10 colors) is tied up into a “cone”; the washed boyfriend jeans are cuffed, low-waisted & with a white belt; the jacket (available in 12 colors) is sliding off the shoulders, covering the hands… LOVE IT!  Lola is sized for Slink HG/P, Belleza F/I/V, & Maitreya.  EXCLUSIVELY available individually or as a fatpack at the September Swank Event, open Sept 7th – 30th.
  • Head:  GENUS Project – Strong Face (free version)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Isla in Mocca
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega); DS’Elles – Freckle Body (Omega)
  • Hair:  Doux – Mecca
  • Eyes:  Avi-Glam – Luminous Eyes in Ivy
  • Makeup:  DS’Elles – Pucker Up Lipgloss
  • Jewelry:  rise Design – Linosa Set; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Shoes:  Graffitiwear – Patchwork Easy Mules
  • Location:  Luane’s World

Making My Escape

Posted on by cejalaval

http://Making My Escape

For the first time in what seems like ages, I took a break.  One whole day, away from packing, sorting, dealing with all the stressful issues that keep popping up.  We did a day trip… two hours away to a lovely town where we had a summer home together more than 30 years ago… our very first home together.  It was lovely to wander through a town, just relaxed with no itinerary, no agenda.  I even went into a clothing store and bought a top and wandered through an old-time candy store… I can’t remember the last time I went into a store to shop rather than just pick up some necessity.  And we ate lunch out, inside a restaurant!  It was a great meal, too, just another thing that helped make it a great day… and yes, we wore our masks the whole time (except while eating of course, though you did need to put your mask back on the moment you got up from your table for any reason) and I don’t think I’ve used so much hand sanitizer in a single day, since every store had its own pump and a mandate to use it upon entering. The break was invigorating, and now we’re working at a heightened efficiency and definitely doing so in better spirits.  I vote for more breaks and more shopping!!! Enjoy, but be safe!

  • Outfit:  GiuliaDesign – Micaela.  Another outfit that blends sexy, relaxed, & stylish!  A casual little cropped blouse tied once in front adds the sex; the short wrap skirt that ties at the hip with a bow adds the “relax”; together they create a very special style!  Sized for Slink HG/P, Belleza F/I/V, & Maitreya, the fatpack includes a 10-color HUD for the top & 7 for the skirt or, if you prefer, you can buy any of the colors individually.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the September round of the Swank Event, open Sept 7th – 30th.
  • Bag:  MY BAGS by Mila – My CUBA in Grey.  The texture on this unisex bag is what makes this stand out!  It’s a 100% original mesh bag for both guys & gals that can be purchased  for 50% OFF in a fat pack with a change of 6 textures and 3 different metals, or individually in one color for just $99L.  All have a resizer, a hand pose, & a no pose version.  One of two bags at the September Beauty Sales Event, Sept 11th – 23rd.  (There’s an event gift too! Don’t miss it!)
  • Head:  GENUS Project – Strong Face (free version)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Hair:  eXxEsS – Palma
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Isla in Mocca
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega); DS’Elles – Freckle Body (Omega)
  • Makeup:  Izzie’s – Summer Eyeshadows;  DS’Elles – Pucker Up Lipgloss
  • Nails:  Encore – Shades of Blue
  • Jewelry:  Cae – Reesha Necklace & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Shoes:  Ghee – SS18 Rickrack Wedges
  • Dog:  Evolving Images– Bulldog
  • Pose:  Secret Poses – Cigarro
  • Backdrop:  Unicorn – Beautiful Village

Walking After Midnight

Posted on by cejalaval

http://Walking After Midnight

Well it’s looking like the sale on our house isn’t going through, and it means there’s a lot of work to do before putting it back on the market.  But  we’ve realized that we can’t really make some decisions about what to take with us unless we go back and look at the house we’re moving to again, taking specific measurements, etc.  After all, we only saw the house once, move than a year ago.  And now that our tenant at that house has moved on, we’ve decided we’re driving down now (NY to FL) and start that ball rolling too.  We were originally going to leave today, but as a NYer, I just couldn’t see our doing that on 9/11, so we’ve pushed it back one more day.  Our house here is in a bit of a shambles from packing, so it will be quite a shock to be in a totally empty house instead, but we think it’s the smart thing to do.  We plan on being there about a week, so we should be able to establish a beachhead of sorts for moving in, since we understand it will take about a week for the stuff we are taking to follow us down.  It’s all just so overwhelming, I’m trying to look at it as a break.  Unfortunately, one of the big things we had wanted to accomplish was to get the internet and TV set up.  No problem, right? Three days to get the equipment we were told, and I’d do a self-install,  But when I went to order it so that it would get there the same day we do, I discovered that our tenant never cancelled HIS account.  And although he no longer lives there and has no legal right to consider it his property, we can’t set up OUR account until his is cancelled.  So at this point I’m looking at about 10 days with no internet access.  Which means no SL among other things.  Not quite what a blogger (or her sponsors!) wants to hear.  But there are worse things in life, and who knows?  Maybe a blogging break will do me good…  Bottom line though, this may be my last blog for a few weeks.  So while I’m gone, be safe, be happy, and have fun shopping!  See you later in September!!!

  • Dress:  Vivacious Inc – Lace Dress “Lya” in Black.  Stunning one shoulder dress with open lace across the top except for a decent-sized modestry strip in the front (back is all lace); matching trim along the bottom of the skirt.  My favorite detail, though, is the slit sleeve from shoulder to cuff.  Also sports a bow at the hip.  Available in 7 color options or as a fatpack; sized for Tonic, Slink HG/P, Belleza F/I/V, Altamura, & Maitreya.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the 08/20 Girls Heaven Event open August 23rd – September 16th.  Demo available.
  • Skin:  7 Deadly s[K]ins – Rio, worn in Caramel. Available in fatpacks of dark or light tones, EXCLUSIVELY at the 08/20 Girls Heaven Event open August 23rd – September 16th.  Shape & demos also available.
  • Bag:  MY BAGS by Mila – My Jade in Red.  The handle on this stunning bag is a work of art!  MY JADE can be purchased in a fat pack with a change of 9 textures and 3 different metals, or individually in one color & gold metal.  All have a resizer, a hand pose, an arm pose, & a no pose version. It’s a 100% original mesh bag EXCLUSIVELY available at the September Unik Event, open September 7th – 28th.
  • Body: Tonic – Curvy Beauty (worn with Booty Control), in the new updated version.  Truly the most natural curves on the grid with options to add that extra oomph how & if you want it, as well as others to minimize the bust &/or the butt.  With Tonic, you can truly customize the look of your body!
  • Head:  GENUS Project – Strong Face (free version)
  • Hair:  Exile – Class Act
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega); DS’Elles – Freckle Body (Omega)
  • Eyes:  {Demicorn} Cosmetics – Meringue Eyes (Genus Appliers)
  • Lipstick:  Livia – Bianca
  • Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer – Belladonna Crystal Beaded Choker & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Photo Booth:  FOXCITY – Flutter (Black)

Child of the ’60s

Posted on by cejalaval

http://Child of the '60s

Of all the decades, there are two that always stand out in my mind — the ’60s and the ’20s.  Both have a lot of similarities in that they marked great social upheavals in terms of changing attitudes.  Of greater relevance to this blog is that both had their own distinctive  fashion trends, many styles of which are still popular today (that’s when miniskirts started).  I don’t know why but I absolutely adore those gorgeous dresses and gowns from the ’20s and have a special affinity for the fringes and bellbottoms and miniskirts and John Lennon glasses and so much more from the ’60s.  It’s just so much fun to dress in a modified hippie look.  And in today’s troubled times, the world could certainly use some additional love and peace.  It’s just groovy, man!

  • Outfit:  Brii Underground Wear – Moira Boho Hippie Style Complet Outfit.  A groovy hippie look modified for modern times! Includes the dungaree overalls in skirt form (with one strap artfully undone & a fabulous abstract on the front), a black bra in both Omega & BOM versions, wedge sandals, headband, hippie glasses, necklace & bracelet. Sized for Slink HG/P, Belleza F/V, & Maitreya.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the 08/20 Girls Heaven Event open August 23rd – September 16th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  GENUS Project – Strong Face (free version)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Isla in Mocca
  • Hair:  no.match – NO_CHAINS
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega); DS’Elles – Freckle Body (Omega)
  • Thong:  MOZ Designs – Strapless Bra & Thong Panty
  • Nails:  Touryuumon – Smoky Mist Nails
  • Location:  Psyhippie

Solitude

Posted on by cejalaval

http://Solitude

Solitude is one of those two-sided things… it can be sad and lonely, or it can be calming way to focus and replenish your spirit and your energies.  In the earlier days of Covid, many people had a bit too much solitude, but now that we’re all (hopefully!) more out and about, I’m finding those few hours of solitude are refreshing and necessary to my sanity, especially with all the craziness surrounding selling our house and getting ready for the big move.  I don’t smoke cigarettes, but I’ll admit that I did in my younger days (much younger lol!), and to me somehow smoking is always “visually” tied to relaxation.  Hmmm, I’m so relaxed I think it’s time to go do some serious shopping at all new September events!  Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  GiuliaDesign – Bonny.  Relaxing doesn’t equate to “no style,” as this gloriously detailed little denim shorts set proves.  I LOVE the top with all its openwork at the neckline & the shape of its bottom; the little denim shorts (& I do mean little!) are unbuttoned & frayed to the perfect degree.  I added a thong (see below) because I loved how it looked showing in the back, but it’s definitely not a necessity.  Sized for Slink HG/P, Belleza F/I/V, & Maitreya, the fatpack includes a 10-color HUD for the top & 6 for the shorts or, if you prefer, you can buy any of the colors individually.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the September Miix Event, open August 30th – September 20th.  Demos available.
  • Head:  GENUS Project – Strong Face (free version)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Isla in Mocca
  • Hair:  Stealthic – Sultry
  • Eyes:  {Demicorn} Cosmetics – Meringue Eyes (Genus Appliers)
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega); DS’Elles – Freckle Body (Omega)
  • Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer – Tarentella Gypsy Dancer Bracelet & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Thong:  MOZ Designs – Strapless Bra & Thong Panty
  • Nails:  Encore – Shades of Blue
  • Pose:  Secret Poses – Scarlett #5
  • Cat:  KittyCatS! – Just one of my breedable cats (Milo is actually my 2nd inworld cat ever!), I’m absolutely crazy for these! I even have my own little store on MarketPlace to sell some of my extra kittens 
  • Location:  The new hideaway (private)

Spicy Noir

Posted on by cejalaval

http://Spicy Noir

I am thrilled that August is over, it’s been so stressful and exhausting, I’m hoping that the joy of moving will soon set in.  Unfortunately, we’re still in the stressful stage.  The house was inspected for hours on Friday; now we’re in the stage where we negotiate what needs to be done so that we can get a contract signed.  Then it’s on to actually getting it done, and of course packing.  Just to make it a bit more stressful, we’re driving to our house for a week or so since we only saw it once a year ago and need measurements before we start paying to move things that won’t even fit.  Looks like it will be another tough month to get my blogging done, but it’s such a needed escape right now!!!  All I need is a few more hours each day to get it all done lol… oh well, all I can do is what I can do.  I don’t know about you, but I need a shopping break!

  • Outfit:  [MH Couture] – Veritee Sheer.  A corset waist-tied skirt & matching HUD-driven top, all in 8 sheer colors (the corset stays black).  Yes, it’s sheer, but the neck ruffle & a small solid panel on the skirt are artfully placed to help cover your bits if you care about those things (which I do).  Includes these sexy little black ankle boots.  I added a teeny thong as well, but that’s personal preference.  Veritee is sized for Slink HG/P, Belleza F/I/V, & Maitreya.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the 08/20 Girls Heaven Event open August 23rd – September 16th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  GENUS Project – Strong Face (free version)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Isla in Mocca
  • Hair:  Sintiklia – Alma
  • Eyes:  {Demicorn} Cosmetics – Meringue Eyes (Genus Appliers)
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega); DS’Elles – Freckle Body (Omega)
  • Makeup:  Izzie’s – Whiskey Smokey Eyeshadow;  LUXRebel – “LOVE Y” Group Gift Lipstick
  • Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer – Hula Lula Necklace & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Thong:  MOZ Designs – Strapless Bra & Thong Panty
  • Nails:  Dark Passions – Koffin Nails, Foiled Valentine
  • Photo Booth/Pose:  FOXCITY –  City Life

Gleam

Posted on by cejalaval

http://Gleam

You know that look he gets in his eye?  The one that makes you tingle and melt all at the same time?  All kinds of things can spark that look, including the perfect piece of lingerie (which I guess is why it’s so popular lol).  I learned a long time ago it’s not just about what the lingerie reveals… it’s about the “package” it creates.  Details that invite touch… and this bodysuit definitely has it all!  Hmmm, why do I want to cover this up at all?  You’ll struggle a bit with THAT question, too, once you see how this amazing little bodysuit flaunts your shape while maintaining a bit of that all-important mystery… Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  GiuliaDesign – Greta.  The gleam of satin on this lace-trimmed semi-sheer bodysuit will match the gleam in his eye!  Sized for Slink HG/P, Belleza F/I/V, & Maitreya, you can buy it in black or any of 5 other colors or in a fatpack (HUD controlled).  EXCLUSIVELY available at the XXX Original Event, open August 13th – September 3rd.  Demo available.
  • Head:  GENUS Project – Strong Face (free version)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Hair:  Analog Dog – Terceira
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Isla in Mocca
  • Freckles:  DS’Elles – Freckle Body (Omega)
  • Eyes:  {Demicorn} Cosmetics – Meringue Eyes (Genus Appliers)
  • Makeup:  DS’Elles – Pucker Up Lipgloss
  • Jewelry:  Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  Kokoro Poses – Makeup

One hot mess

Posted on by cejalaval

http://One hot mess

OMG, selling a house in these times is EXHAUSTING.  On the good side, houses where we live are moving waaaaaay faster than they used to.  Last year, when we first started planning for this, we expected it to take up to six months. Now we’re being told it will be just a matter of weeks.  But what we didn’t realize was what that meant in terms of showing the house.  Yesterday alone we had 8 showings.  And since we’re not allowed to be “in” the house (we can be in the backyard) and we currently have two big dogs here (one who is a rambunctious 9-month-old 80-lb pitbull puppy), it means sitting in the backyard with two dogs on leashes or dragging them off for yes, another walk.  So far, today will be an off day with only two showings scheduled, but we’re being told to prepare for an onslaught over the weekend.  We’re going to need a vacation after this lol!  I’ve barely had time to go inworld what with all the prep, cleaning, and avoiding being inside, but some outfits just demand to be blogged, no matter what! Enjoy your shopping!!!!

  • Outfit:  YoU by GeMyles – Evangeline & Boots.  Talk about hot!  This outfit completely wow’d my partner & demanded his full attention!  An off-shoulder top with fishnet sleeves paired with open front shorts in 6 denim textures (HUD driven) plus black thigh-high fishnet boots & a choker, Evangeline is sized for Slink HG/P, Belleza F/I/V,  Tonic Curvy/Fine (not the boots though), & Maitreya. EXCLUSIVELY available at The Darkness August Event through August 31st.  Demo available.
  • Head:  GENUS Project – Strong Face (free version)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Isla in Mocca
  • Hair:  Tram – G0220
  • Sunglasses:  Mulloy – Amalfi
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega); DS’Elles – Freckle Body (Omega)
  • Makeup:  DS’Elles – Scandalous Crave Lipstick
  • Tattoo:  ShitStorm – Darkness Tattoo
  • Nails:  StunnerOriginals – Bento Nails Mesh Stiletto Long Mongrel
  • Jewelry:  Aurealis Jewelry – Kiara Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  FOXCITY – Taxi Bento Pose Set
  • Location:  The Hood

Beer on the Bay

Posted on by cejalaval

http://Beer on the Bay

So I’m no fan of beer, I’ve never developed a liking for the taste.  But THIS is definitely what I need…  some time on an empty stretch of beach to just be with nature and stop stressing out! Today is the day that our house goes on the real estate market… it’s been very stressful to say the least, and that stress will probably be pretty constant for months what with showings, contracts, closings, packing, and the actual moving and resettling.  I’ve been in this house for more than 30 years… it’s where we raised our kids, so leaving it — even for a better lifestyle — is definitely as much of a sad event as it is a happy one.  Starting a new chapter is great, but it does mean ending the one before.  Sighs… now where’s that beach?

  • Outfit:  AnaSTyle – Letizia White.  As I’ve said before (& is clearly visible just by a quick look at my blogging history lol), I love off-shoulder tops, and the shoulders to this seemingly simple top are loose, way-off-shoulder, & very loopy, so that if you stretch out your arms they seem to expand.  Asymmetrical in front, with leather lacing up the slightly open sides, are added details that show it’s not just another t-shirt top. The washed jeans are long & wide bottomed, & just scream comfort.  I didn’t wear the included high heel mules because who can walk through the sand in those! Letizia is sized for Slink HG/P, Belleza F/I/V, & Maitreya.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the 07/20 Girls Heaven Event that’s open just a few more days till August 19th.
  • Head:  GENUS Project – Strong Face (free version)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Isla in Mocca
  • Hair:  Navy & Copper – Hannah
  • Sunglasses:  Mulloy – Amalfi
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega); DS’Elles – Freckle Body (Omega)
  • Makeup:  DS’Elles – Pucker Up Lipgloss
  • Jewelry:  Cae – Marina Necklace & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Props:  Crystal – Crystona cooler
  • Location:  Soul2Soul Bay