Hair toss, check my nails

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Things have been a bit frustrating of late, on the grid and off.   Crashing, teleport fails, rezzing in to HUDs having reset (really a pain for a blogger with HUDs for every clothing item — sometimes even faces on a single item, makeup, hair, jewelry, shoes)… it can be a lot.  And yes, I TRY to write down every choice I make (“try” being the operative word).  On FlickR, views are way down for some reason, which in turn affects faves and awards… all the things a blogger needs to satisfy current and prospective sponsors, not to mention keeping their own spirits and confidence up.  IRL, our cable has been acting up, impacting our streaming channels the most, but sometimes the internet as well (more blogging stress).  And I wish that was all, but  that said, sometimes you just have to put your chin up and your shoulders back, toss your hair, check your nails, and remind yourself that “you got this”.  Seriously, though, I DO have to give myself that little pep talk to boost my confidence both in SL and IRL more often than I would like, but also more often than not, it DOES work.  Remember… you got this!  See you at the stores!

  • Dress:  WILD Fashion – Monroe.  Stunningly sexy & vibrant semi-formal, cut almost waist high on one side, with the most perfect asymmetric edge.  Monroe includes a HUD with 25 different textures (for both color & three different styles), plus optional Rose decoration & fashion panties (always a HUGE plus in my book). Sized for Reborn+Waifus, Legacy+Perky, GenX Classic+Curvy, Maitreya, Kupra, Khara, & Peach, EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the 13th Year Anniversary of Designer Showcase, open Jan 5th – 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head & Lipstick:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  eBody – Reborn
  • Skin:  DeeTaleZ – Heidi in Rosekiss (Velour body skin)
  • Hair:  NO.MATCH – No_Candle
  • Eyes:  PUMEC – Arisha
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Makeup: I n’ K Original – Time Eye; Opulein – Harmony Collection Lips
  • Nails:  Veechi – Precious Metals
  • Tattoo:  Venge – Boheme
  • Jewelry:  Heartsdale Jewelry – Valentina Collection Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Shoes:  KC Couture – Valentina Heels
  • Pose:  STUN Poses – Rachel
  • Location:  The Empire Omerta

You’re late

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It’s only 9:30A and it’s already one of those days. I guess it has to happen sometimes, but it’s just not fun.  That said, my mind is a blur, I’m on edge, and time is disappearing while I wait for call-backs, etc.  Perfect timing for this photo! Aaaargh… I think I need some shopping therapy and I need it right NOW!!!  See you at the stores!

  • Dress:  Luna Chelsea – Cherai Dress.  Understated & relaxed, radiating totally effortless sexiness. Sized for Reborn+Waifu, Kupra, Legacy+Perky, Maitreya+Petite, LaraX+Petite, GenX Classic+Curvy, & Erika, Cherai includes an incredible HUD with 6-11 tones in 9 different colors for both the dress & the belt (see the ad below).  But that’s not all, because Cherai also includes a Special Effects HUD to help you further customize your dress to create all kinds of special effects. You can literally change your texture from satin to leather to latex or play with reflection colors & shininess to create metallic glows & reflections (you must have Advanced Lighting enabled).  I went with a base of Jet Black, leather gloss, deep red highlights… experimenting was so much fun & IMHO the result was amazing, if a bit hard to capture in a photo!  Cherai is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the 13th Year Anniversary of Designer Showcase, open Jan 5th – 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head & Lipstick:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  eBody – Reborn
  • Skin:  DeeTaleZ – Heidi in Rosekiss (Velour body skin)
  • Hair:  monso – Emeline
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Makeup:  Jack Spoon – IcyWhisper Glitter Shadow
  • Nails:  Dalila – Gyda
  • Jewelry:  Maxi Gossamer – Giselle Opal Set; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Shoes:  KC Couture – Yoshee Ribbon Heels

Should I get two?

http://How many should I get?

Aaaargh! Thanksgiving is less than a week away; my company arrives day after tomorrow (eek!), Black Friday sales have started, and I have so much blogging to do!  Breathe, breathe, breathe… one step at a time… It can be so hard to make even simple decisions when fixated on dwindling time.  But if it’s one thing I’ve learned both in blogging AND in real life is that rushing simply does not work out well.  How many times have you thought you didn’t have time to do something but somehow you always find the time to go back and fix it (or at least try to)?  So, deep breath, relax, and go escape into my wonderful fantasy world, and create another look, another character, another scene… it’s a phenomenal way to escape all the stress.  Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:   Ghee – Paola.   What a great little set for the fall! A three-quarter-sleeved jacket with a matching mini skirt over the softest-looking ribbed sweater (velour?)… I love the way the sleeves show!  It all looks so comfy yet totally stylish.  Available in 4 colors (black, purple, blue, & brown), each of which includes 4 colors for the sweater (black, white, pink, & red), or as a fatpack.  Sized for Legacy, Maitreya, Hourglass, Physique, Freya, Isis, Venus, & Tonic, Paola is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Nov round of Designer Showcase, open through Nov 25th.  
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Sorbet
  • Hair:  Monso – Pink
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Makeup:  Dernier – Eyeliner Set Vol 1; Hype – Something Eyeshadow; Sequoia – Madalina Eyeshadow; Top1Salon – Nataluxe Lipstick
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Nails:  StunnerOriginals – Mesh Ballerina Long Soft
  • Jewelry:  Maxi Gossamer – Valencia Necklace & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Bag:  DDL Accessories – Rule
  • Boots:  KC Couture – Heda Boots
  • Location:  Backdrop City (Tropix – Ikusa Vending Machine)

Missing You

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So I’m afraid today is going to be a bit of a rant.  What is it about baring your breasts on Flickr lately?  And I don’t mean as part of a shot, but as the only purpose of the shot?  I post my pix to a lot of award groups because just like many posters, I like to get faves and awards, and as a blogger, it’s almost mandatory.  When I first started blogging back in 2017, I took those awards way too seriously, getting depressed if faves or awards didn’t happen.  My first blogger manager taught me something exceptionally important, that I needed to be doing photoshoots for ME… I was the one who needed to like my pix, and that I needed to shoot for MY tastes and to create a personal style.  Then sponsors could decide if that style worked for them or not.  Awards would happen or not.  Followers would happen or not.  But as long as I was happy with my work, then all was good.  And there are plenty of totally awesome bloggers and photographers and artists on Flickr who are truly inspiring, where I study their shots as to exactly WHAT it is that makes me go “WOW” and try to incorporate that if it melds with my own style.   BUT, and it’s an increasingly big BUT, those awesome pix are being too often buried under a ton of pix that are submitted to “artistic” and “blogging” award groups when it’s just a straight snapshot of partial or total nudity. Granted, everyone has their own taste, but taking off your clothes and standing there in front of a colored screen just to show off huge boobs does not constitute art… and unless you’re blogging skin or a body shape or  nipple add-ons etc., it’s not blogging.  There are some groups I actually had to leave because I was struggling to find anything I could  award.  I don’t want to resort to giving awards WITHOUT FAVING the photo, but that’s what it’s coming to.  There are plenty of groups for flaunting your body parts, and yes again, your taste is not necessarily my taste, but come on folks.  I moderate two groups (one fashion and one for wings) and I can’t even begin to tell you how many fully naked shots are submitted to both.  What a waste of time denying them all.  OK, rant ended, and I’ve gotten this pet peeve off my chest (no pun intended)… Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  Le’La – Lowri.  Personally I find that blazers modified slightly into a dress are exceptionally sexy.  It must be something about the modification of a “businessy” look into an outfit that definitely suggests getting busy in a totally different way!  Lowri is a beautifully styled blazer dress with matching open toed stiletto ankle boots.  She includes a 40 color HUD (solid & ombre, like I’m wearing), all with a beautiful sheen. You can set the color for the blazer itself, the blazer collar & pockets, the shoes, the shoe straps, & the metallic buttons (see the ad below).  Sized for Legacy+Perky, GenX Classic + Curvy, Maitreya+Petite, Kupra, Erika, & Reborn+Waifus, Lowri is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Nov round of Designer Showcase, open through Nov 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Sorbet
  • Hair:  tram – F728
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Makeup:  Dernier – Eyeliner Set Vol 1; Nuve – Faith Eyeshadows
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Nails: Dalila – Gyda Nail Kit
  • Jewelry:  IT! Indulge Temptation – Victorian Set; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  [piXIt] – Mona
  • Backdrop:  FOXCITY – Photo Booth Cozy Lobby
  • Dog:  JIAN – Corgi Sable Sleeper
  • Man:  DisturbeD – Alfie Businessman Sitting

Coffee-flavored daydreams

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I run on coffee IRL, and that addiction has certainly crept into my SL existence as well.  Coffee just fits so well into just about any situation, any setting, coordinating with any outfit.  However, there is definitely a side effect to doing a photo shoot with a cup of coffee… and that is how it almost mandates that I have its twin sitting within easy reach on my desk!  Don’t get me wrong, it’s not a problem, no issues whatsoever, it just is what it is lol!  Though here I am long finished with my shoot, and just looking at the pic and writing about it, well, you’ve probably guessed it… now I’m having a definite hankering for a cup!  In fact, it’s definitely a good idea, and I am off to go brew a cup.  Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  I.M. Collection – Maeve. Such a relaxed easy look! Includes a HUD with 12 options for the striped top & 12 for the solid skirt (see the ad below).  Sized for Legacy+Perky, GenX Classic + Curvy, Maitreya+Petite, Kupra+Khara, & Reborn+Waifus, Maeve is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Nov round of Designer Showcase, open through Nov 25th.  
  • Setting:  Dreamland Designs – New & exclusive items for the current SOS  SleptOn Sale, this weekend only from Nov 9 – 12th:
    • Wooden Forest Bench – available in adult & PG bento animations with self-rezzing props on singles sequences (one of which I’m using in the pic); adult animations include facials & speed control
    • Woodland Fire Pit – with sparks, crackling wood sounds & animated flames/smoke
    • Forest Pine Tree Scene – material enabled, the scene of pine trees & more is easily modified to shift trees, etc. as needed
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Sorbet
  • Hair:  WINGSDG – ES1101
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Makeup:  Dernier – Eyeliner Set Vol 1; Nuve – Faith Eyeshadows
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Jewelry:  No.MatchNO_Diamond Loops; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Shoes:  KC Couture – Jora Boots

 

Searching for the perfect pumpkin

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It’s pumpkin time! They’re everywhere, in decor, in food, in coffee drinks, on clothing…  It’s actually becoming a bit of an overload (as does everything in today’s over-saturated world), but my favorite part is almost here… the carving of the pumpkin.  This is when the search for “the perfect pumpkin” begins… the right size, the right shape for the right design…  all leading up to that amazing moment when your (hopefully!) artfully carved pumpkin is lit for the first time… I can’t wait!!! But for now, the hunt for the pumpkin is on! Happy shopping (and happy hunting)!

  • Outfit:  KiB Designs – Anais.  Rapidly becoming one of my favorite brands, I just love the way KiB mixes style & “recognizable” textures with artful little touches like the off-shoulder, slightly “skewed” cropped top in this outfit (I’m noticing that I definitely have a thing for off-shoulder lol).  Anais includes separate HUDs for the top (20 solids, 10 in each of two “fabrics” as shown in the ad below) & skirt (30 textures split between 3 different plaids)… that’s a lot of different looks & they all say casually sexy comfort!  Sized for Legacy, GenX Classic + Curvy, Maitreya, Kupra, Khara, Erika, & Reborn, Anais is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Oct round of Designer Showcase, open through Oct 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Sorbet
  • Hair:  Doux – Peach
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Makeup:  Dernier – Eyeliner Set Vol 1;  Sequoia – Anabella; IDTTY Faces – Secret Potion 5
  • Tattoo:  Juna Artistic Tattoo – Lory
  • Jewelry:  KUNGLERS – Kara set; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  BuY ME – Pumpkin Pose set
  • Location:  Fall Pumpkin Patch

Save Me

http://Save Me

Save me… it’s been a rough couple of days.  My website went down, which to someone who knows the absolute minimum of WordPress etc is a bit chilling, with visions of an overly daunting challenge starting to make my heart beat a bit faster.  Luckily, once I was able to reach customer service on live chat (not as hard as I feared; the challenge was in finding my password lol) the solution turned out to be quite simple… my account had been suspended for nonpayment since for some reason I had failed to update my contact info with my new address/email when I moved almost 3 years ago and bills had therefore never reached me.  Although they told me it could easily take up to 10 days for my site to be restored, I was back up and running in a matter of hours.  Crisis averted!  Still feeling a bit stressed when I started my photo shoot, I was a bit lost as to what I wanted to do.  And then the song “Save Me” (K.D. Lange) started playing, and I   immediately envisioned one of those parties where you MUST make an appearance and stay for a reasonable amount of time, but all you wanted was someone to rescue you…  And on that note, I am off and running, making up for lost time!

  • Outfit:  Sascha’s Designs – Elleisse Outfit in Blue.   I absolutely love the somewhat edgy attitude of this outfit!  Leather & feathers… what could be better?  How about TWO OUTFITS in ONE?  Choose your color (there are 9) & then relish in both a blouse with optional feather sleeves & a turtleneck with optional shoulder fur (which also makes a great option with the blouse  as I accidentally discovered when exploring the different looks) to wear with a leather miniskirt with optional waist chain… see the ad below for details.  Sized for Legacy, Hourglass, Freya, & Maitreya, Elleisse is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Oct round of Designer Showcase, open Oct 5th – 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Sorbet
  • Hair:  Sintiklia – Hair Orli
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Makeup:  Dernier – Eyeliner Set Vol 1;  In’K Original – Deep Desire ES; Lempika – Ultra Realistic EvoX #74
  • Jewelry:  Heartsdale Jewelry – Essentials Collection:  Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  [piXIt] – Fumer
  • Backdrop:  FOXCITY – Photo Booth Lobby

Alone with My Thoughts

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Wow, autumn has arrived RL, with a vengeance. Even here in Florida there’s a slight nip in the air…  I’m wearing a sweatshirt (at least in the mornings and the evenings lol) and outdoor activities are so much more pleasurable.  I do miss those changing leaves and the crunch underfoot, although I definitely do NOT miss all that raking when they fall.  Here on the grid though, I can enjoy all those beautiful colors and autumnal settings without having to do all that backbreaking maintenance.  I’m off to see all those gorgeous sims that exemplify the glory of autumn (be sure to check out Sonder, where I did this photoshoot… it’s definitely a wonderful example of autumn splendor).  Happy shopping!

  • Dress:  Carol’s Store – Evangeline.  I love this fall dress! A simple long-sleeved lightweight knit with a sweetheart neckline edged in white lace, gathered lightly & tied off with a bow, falling with a natural drape to the very tops of your thighs (but covering your butt, which is definitely my preference lol).  Choose from 10 single textures or a fatpack.  ORIGINAL MESH with materials enabled, Evangeline is sized for Legacy, Belleza GenX (Classic & Curvy), Maitreya, Kupra, Khara, Reborn, Erika, & Love Momma.  She is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at Cosmopolitan Event, open through Oct 14th, & then at the mainstore.  See the ad below; demo available.
  • Jewelry:  Heartsdale Jewelry – Banjaran Collection.  What a beautiful necklace & earrings, interesting but not overpowering, the true definition of “accessorizing”!  Banjaran is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Oct round of Designer Showcase, open Oct 5th – 25th.  See the closeup above & the ad below for details.  Also worn:  Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Sorbet
  • Hair:  Doux – Mecca
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles; DeeTaleZ – Makeup & Addon, Moles Pack
  • Makeup:  Dernier – Eyeliner Set Vol 1;  Sugarose – Davina Eyeshadow;  Fontaine Cosmetics – Sweetheart Lips
  • Pose:  [piXIt] – Dertia
  • Location:  Autumn in Sonder

Waiting for fall…

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It’s that time, as summer slowly fades into fall (too slowly if you ask me lol).  Even here in Florida, it’s not quite as hot, not quite as humid, but it can definitely never be like fall was up in NY.  We were supposed to be heading up north to New England tomorrow, but my husband came down with COVID, so plans adjusted.  I’m still negative (and plan to stay that way!), so we are now doing a greatly modified trip to the Rhode Island seashore.  Our understanding is that the nights are cool… I cannot wait!  Just putting on a light jacket (like in my pic!) when it’s not because of overactive air conditioning will be such a treat after this incredibly hot and humid summer.  Summer is ending here on the grid too… tomorrow is the last day of summer at my estate… I can’t wait for all those glorious fall colors! Enjoy these days, and all the wonderful shopping that goes with them!

  • Outfit:  KiB Designs – Sabbia.  Nothing makes me happier (fashion-wise that is!) than an adorable outfit that gives me lots of options.  And I have to say, Sabbia makes me VERY happy indeed!  The light jacket almost slipping off the shoulders is just perfect for that little something extra weather-wise, the little crop top sports the most enticing buttons, & both are paired with the cutest high waist buttoned shorts that are VERY short in the back.  And the options!  Sabbia includes separate HUDs for the jacket (12 solids + 12 patterns), top (46 colors), & shorts (26 options)… that’s a lot of different looks! (See the ad below for details.)  Sized for Legacy + Perky, Maitreya + Petite, & Reborn, Sabbia is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Sept round of Designer Showcase, open Sept 5th – 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Mocca
  • Hair:  Doux – Kiara
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles; DeeTaleZ – Makeup & Addon, Moles Pack
  • Makeup:  [theSkinnery] – waterline eyeliner;  Velour – LAYLA Lipstick
  • Jewelry:  RealEvil Industries – LUX Celeste Necklace & Earrings (GIFT);  Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  Fashiowl – Smells of Fall

Play me like a violin

http://Play me like a violin

I’ve never played a violin; in fact, the only time I’ve ever even held one was when my daughter was playing it in school , but I’ve always loved the sound of the strings.  It’s amazing what skilled people can do, with any instrument really.  I also love that expression — “played me like a violin”.  It communicates so much, the ups, the downs, the thrills, the despair, and everything inbetween.  My life has been in the “presto” range (somewhat frenetic) of late… trips to the ER with my husband, getting ready for a week-long trip later this week, trying to get as much of my Sept blogging commitment done before leaving on Thursday just in case we don’t get back when we think we will (hello, Hurricane Lee, please make up your mind if you’re going to mess with our trip!)…  Takes a deep breath, concentrating on the music, hearing a new movement starting… Happy Shopping!

  • Gown:  JUMO Originals – Behatti Gown, in 2 versions.  This stunning sheath of a gown with a truly gorgeous yoke includes two versions — solid & lace (see the two ads below).  The lace gown has a HUD with 20 colors; the solid version’s HUD has 20 satin textures + 5 printed silk + 5 sequin (of which I’m wearing one);an optional shine layer is also included. With all those variations, it’s easy to dress Behatti up or down!  Sized for Legacy + Perky, GenX Curvy + Classic, Maitreya, Reborn + Waifu, Behatti is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Sept round of Designer Showcase, open Sept 5th – 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Mocca
  • Hair:  no.match – NO RESISTANCE
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Makeup:  Dernier – Valentina Eyeshadow + Eyeliner Set Vol 1; CAZIMI – Opal EvoX Lipstick
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles; DeeTaleZ – Makeup & Addon, Moles Pack
  • Nails:  Dalila Accessories – Jaya Nail Kit
  • Pose:  MoCap Italy – Violin Player
  • Location:  Theatre on the Hill