Month: June 2021

As lost as the man in the moon

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Life is strange.  One moment everything is good, and you’re wondering how you were ever so fortunate for this to actually be your life.  Then the next moment comes, and you feel totally lost and somewhat adrift, confused by how quickly things can change.  Only a few short weeks ago, life was pretty awesome here in my new home, in my new state, living the dream of retirement.  Now I’m floundering, dealing with the upheaval of taking over responsibility for my mom (who really seems to be in rapidly deteriorating mental shape, let alone recovering from a broken hip) and bringing her elderly shitzu into my already existing menagerie of a large dog, two cats, and two parakeets.  The dog is confused, my mom is confused, and frankly, I’m feeling somewhat confused by all the changes too.  The fact that we didn’t want the dog doesn’t help (my husband is NOT happy), but I recognize it’s all a temporary adjustment, and things will (hopefully!) start to settle down once my mom actually moves next week from the rehab facility down near to my sister up to where I live and into a new (and hopefully much better) memory care facility.  At least the decision is made as to where she’s going, the room has been selected, and all the wheels for the move have been set into motion.  As for the animals, well, things are progressing, albeit slowly.  Being small and elderly, she is nowhere near as disruptive as we anticipated.  She adores our “original” dog; the cats have finally ventured out of the bedroom where they’ve been hiding since “the arrival”; she’s learning the rhythms of the household and adjusting to new times for feeding, walking, etc.  Unfortunately, my SL partner (who is outside it all and is therefore ideally situated to help keep me sane and level and calm) will be going away on vacation, and I’ll be struggling through this next round of changes all on my own, but I’m hoping that things will quickly settle down once everyone is in their proper places.  As for the additional responsibilities, well, it’s what you do, and I’ve shouldered lots of responsibility my entire adult life, so at least I know what I’m in for.  I can always go talk to the man in the moon when things get too tough!  And on that note, I think a shopping break is definitely required!!! Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  GGVG Fashion – Adele Top & Short.  Includes an optional belt which partially hangs & adds just that special little touch.  In 5 individual colors or as a fatpack with 22 colors for the top, shorts, belt, & frill separately.  Adele is sized for Hourglass, Freya, Isis, Legacy, & Maitreya, & is EXCLUSIVELY available at the June Swank Event, open from June 7th – 30th.  Demo available.
  • Set:  Dreamland Designs – Lost with the Man On the Moon.  Just about everything you see, not just the fabulous moon, but also the rocks & partial stone ruin behind it, swaying trees & flowers, grass & stones, sparkling floor lights, & mystical fireflies.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the June Swank Event, open from June 7th – 30th. 
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  Velour – Meg
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole; Marpesia – Beauty Mark V1
  • Eyes:  ARTE – Green Eyes
  • Hair:  Doux – Cece, available at Uber
  • Makeup:  Opulein – Harmony Collection Lipstick
  • Pose:  STUN Poses – Gaia

Blue Hawaii

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Well, it might not be Hawaii, but here in Florida where I now live, everything is a bit beachy year round.  But you know it’s REALLY summer when the beachwear and beach decor start showing up everywhere on the grid!  IMHO, one of the premier places to see  what’s new this season is at the Under the Sea event.  I’ve done some fabulous “upgrades” to both my wardrobe and my landscaping… take a look, and then go see them (and more) for yourself!  Happy summer shopping!

  • Outfit:  Allure Couture – Darleen Swimsuit & Shirt.  Proof that you don’t need to wear a bikini to be sexy on the beach! Darleen is a corset style one-piece with extremely high cut thighs & absolutely no back except for the thong portion, paired with a sheer men’s shirt that shows off your curves!  Sized for Slink HG/P,  Belleza F/I/V, Legacy, Kupra, & Maitreya.  She’s available in 4 separate colors, in a 5-texture Slimpack, or a Fatback of 10, all with 100% Original Textures where you can adjust the suit & shirt textures separately. EXCLUSIVELY at the Under the Sea event, an Evil Bunny Production, June 5th – 15th.  Demo available.
  • Piano:  Tylar’s Treasures – Barbados Beach Bar.  The cutest beach bar, made from a surf board mounted on two palm trees, with two low-backed beach stools; 4-color texture change menu for bar & seats (mix n match). See below for a full shot.  Includes the macaw & the two coconut drinks.  LOADED with bento animations for singles & couples (choose from Adult or PG).  EXCLUSIVELY at the Under the Sea event, an Evil Bunny Production, June 5th – 15th.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  Velour – Meg
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole; Marpesia – Beauty Mark V1
  • Eyes:  ARTE – Green Eyes
  • Hair:   Tram – F1124
  • Jewelry:  Chaos, Panic, & Disorder – Under the Sea Necklace

Sweet Tooth

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Real life has not been easy for the last couple of weeks.  The level of care at the memory care facility where my mom has been living has deteriorated so.  We couldn’t get in to see what was happening during COVID, but now that we have access again, we can see how bad things have gotten.  What’s even worse, because supervision is lacking, there now seem to be repeated altercations between residents to the point where they become physical.  The end result was that my mother was pushed, fell, and broke her hip.  She had surgery, is in rehab, and we’ve decided to move her to a memory care facility near me where there are lots of choices, rather than where she’s been (which is over 3 hours away near my sister, where the choices are far fewer AND more expensive).  So lots of running around looking at places, etc.  On top of it all, my mom still had her elderly dog living with her; even if any of the facilities up here allowed that (which they don’t), we decided that it was no longer a positive thing.  Since my sister “can’t handle” having a dog (even a little shitzu mix like this one) I’ve inherited her.  I already have a large dog, two cats, and two parakeets, so it’s not like she’s going to impact my lifestyle, but I can’t say that for the rest of the family.  It’s always a lot for another living thing to be integrated into a functioning household.  The cats are terrified, and haven’t left the bedroom in days… we’ll give it a little bit of time to see if everything settles down to a new normal, but I’m certainly not going to sacrifice their happiness for my mom’s dog.  I’m certainly willing to give it some time (my husband a bit less so lol!), but I have agreed that if necessary we will rehome her so that everyone is happy.  Hopefully it won’t come to that, but in the event that it does, lots of people in my community would love to adopt a small dog, but since she is my mom’s beloved pet, I definitely want to give it my best shot.  Bottom line though, I’ve been eating up a storm due to stress and succumbing to my greatness weakness (ice cream is definitely NOT what you want to be splurging on when you’ve been dieting for months!), and I’ve barely been inworld, let alone had time to do all what’s required for a blog.  Hopefully that will change, and change soon, and I’ll be able to do more than bop in for an hour or two and get this sweet tooth of mine re-tamed!!!  I did of course still find time for my weekend shopping lol, and I wish you a good week, filled with fabulous finds! Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  LUXE Paris Fashion House – Dentelle.  Includes Vest, Tank, Pants, Boots, & Tattoo.  These days it takes something special for a casual pants outfit to stand out, & this outfit does just that! The relaxed look & creasing of the pants is totally realistic, & the pockets/zippers/trim/buttons on all the pieces have that realistic depth.  I love the muted textures, & the addition of the little tattoos on the arms add that little optional touch. Sized for Hourglass, Freya, Maitreya & Maitreya Petite, Dentelle is EXCLUSIVELY available at the June Swank Event, open from June 7th – 30th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  Velour – Meg
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole; Marpesia – Beauty Mark V1
  • Eyes:  ARTE – Green Eyes
  • Hair:  Moon Hair Salon & Boutique – Imagination
  • Jewelry:  Maxi Gossamer – Monterey Boho Necklace & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Milkshake:  Dust Bunny – sweet tooth mint chip milkshake

Tree Lovers

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I don’t know if all fantasy folk feel as connected to nature as I do.  Perhaps it’s the woodland blood flowing through my veins, but I’m always at my most serene when surrounded by lush natural environments.  I recently moved out of Linden housing in their themed fantasy environment and onto my own land… I was fortunate enough to find almost exactly what I wanted… land high on a high overlooking a river that is a “protected” channel (nothing can be built on it, perfect!), with several other fantasy lots nearby, and all of us surrounded by abandoned land.  I have no idea how long the neighborhood will stay as open and natural (mainland never seems to say pristine for very long), but for now I’m so happy with my little home lot (though I’m craving more and more land, like the human has).  There are just so many wondrous items out there, and I’d love to give them all a home, but sadly my space is quite limited so I need to be very very picky.  I’m happy to share my most fabulous finds, and I hope you like them too.  Sprinkling a little fairy dust, wishing you a wonderful day!  Happy shopping!

Fantavatar & Moonstruck – Forest Tree Wedding Arch.  There’s a Greek myth about an old couple (Baucis & Philemon) who —  as a reward for having shown hospitality to two disguised gods testing humanity as they always did — were granted their wish to be turned into two intertwining trees upon their death.  Two trees locked in a lovers embrace has become a not common theme in art, but to see it exemplified so magnificently in nature (well, in SL nature!)…  How absolutely fitting for a fae!!!  I first saw this amazing landscaping item at the Fantasy Faire, & built part of my new lot around it as a focal point, using it as the “gateway” to the upper part of my land (built on a steep hillside).  45 meters tall, with 7 foliages & 2 barks in a changing HUD, the arch is a stunning addition that weaves fantasy, magic, & romance into a beautiful work of fantasy nature that adds a sense of wonder to ANY garden, fantasy or otherwise.  Copy/modify, with a LI of only 8!!!!  You really should see this in person, so beautiful!!!

Also shown:

  • Mushroom:  Bentham Manor (seems to be gone) – Bentham Elder Shroom Reward Moonlight
  • Floating Light Orb:  LOVE – Starlight Sparkle Orb
  • Ground Cover:  Lunaria – Clover Ground Cover (includes a lovely little sparkle).