Waiting for fall…

http://Waiting for fall

It’s that time, as summer slowly fades into fall (too slowly if you ask me lol).  Even here in Florida, it’s not quite as hot, not quite as humid, but it can definitely never be like fall was up in NY.  We were supposed to be heading up north to New England tomorrow, but my husband came down with COVID, so plans adjusted.  I’m still negative (and plan to stay that way!), so we are now doing a greatly modified trip to the Rhode Island seashore.  Our understanding is that the nights are cool… I cannot wait!  Just putting on a light jacket (like in my pic!) when it’s not because of overactive air conditioning will be such a treat after this incredibly hot and humid summer.  Summer is ending here on the grid too… tomorrow is the last day of summer at my estate… I can’t wait for all those glorious fall colors! Enjoy these days, and all the wonderful shopping that goes with them!

  • Outfit:  KiB Designs – Sabbia.  Nothing makes me happier (fashion-wise that is!) than an adorable outfit that gives me lots of options.  And I have to say, Sabbia makes me VERY happy indeed!  The light jacket almost slipping off the shoulders is just perfect for that little something extra weather-wise, the little crop top sports the most enticing buttons, & both are paired with the cutest high waist buttoned shorts that are VERY short in the back.  And the options!  Sabbia includes separate HUDs for the jacket (12 solids + 12 patterns), top (46 colors), & shorts (26 options)… that’s a lot of different looks! (See the ad below for details.)  Sized for Legacy + Perky, Maitreya + Petite, & Reborn, Sabbia is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Sept round of Designer Showcase, open Sept 5th – 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Mocca
  • Hair:  Doux – Kiara
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles; DeeTaleZ – Makeup & Addon, Moles Pack
  • Makeup:  [theSkinnery] – waterline eyeliner;  Velour – LAYLA Lipstick
  • Jewelry:  RealEvil Industries – LUX Celeste Necklace & Earrings (GIFT);  Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  Fashiowl – Smells of Fall

Play me like a violin

http://Play me like a violin

I’ve never played a violin; in fact, the only time I’ve ever even held one was when my daughter was playing it in school , but I’ve always loved the sound of the strings.  It’s amazing what skilled people can do, with any instrument really.  I also love that expression — “played me like a violin”.  It communicates so much, the ups, the downs, the thrills, the despair, and everything inbetween.  My life has been in the “presto” range (somewhat frenetic) of late… trips to the ER with my husband, getting ready for a week-long trip later this week, trying to get as much of my Sept blogging commitment done before leaving on Thursday just in case we don’t get back when we think we will (hello, Hurricane Lee, please make up your mind if you’re going to mess with our trip!)…  Takes a deep breath, concentrating on the music, hearing a new movement starting… Happy Shopping!

  • Gown:  JUMO Originals – Behatti Gown, in 2 versions.  This stunning sheath of a gown with a truly gorgeous yoke includes two versions — solid & lace (see the two ads below).  The lace gown has a HUD with 20 colors; the solid version’s HUD has 20 satin textures + 5 printed silk + 5 sequin (of which I’m wearing one);an optional shine layer is also included. With all those variations, it’s easy to dress Behatti up or down!  Sized for Legacy + Perky, GenX Curvy + Classic, Maitreya, Reborn + Waifu, Behatti is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Sept round of Designer Showcase, open Sept 5th – 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Mocca
  • Hair:  no.match – NO RESISTANCE
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Makeup:  Dernier – Valentina Eyeshadow + Eyeliner Set Vol 1; CAZIMI – Opal EvoX Lipstick
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles; DeeTaleZ – Makeup & Addon, Moles Pack
  • Nails:  Dalila Accessories – Jaya Nail Kit
  • Pose:  MoCap Italy – Violin Player
  • Location:  Theatre on the Hill

A bird in the hand…

http://A bird in the hand...

Such an old expression, but life has definitely taught me the truth behind it… what you currently have is quite often worth more than twice what is tempting you elsewhere.  Life is one of those things you need to grab with both hands… there are SO many sayings that effectively communicate the same thought…  definitely some good advice in there!  On that note, I’m off… spent the morning in the ER, and I am done with reality… need to go get me some fantasy RIGHT NOW!  Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  MOW – Lewa Top, Shorts & Chain.   While you’re watching the birds, they (& everybody else) will be watching you in this eye-catching shorts set.  Small bandeau-style top, tied down in the middle, plus sleeves, paired with very short shorts cut extremely high in the butt.  I LOVE the fabric in the top… tiny openwork knit, in 10 fabulous colors; the denim shorts come in 7 colors with a silver chain, plus a gold-tone to add if you choose (like I did).  Eye-catching indeed!  Sized for Legacy + Perky, Maitreya + Petite, & Reborn, Lewa is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Sept round of Designer Showcase, open Sept 5th – 25th.  Fatpacks of the top & the shorts (sold separately) are 50% OFF.  Demo available.
  • Jewelry:  Heartsdale Jewelry – Biba Collection.  Combining simplicity with elegance & a HUD of 9 colors, Biba is also EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the Sept round of Designer Showcase, open Sept 5th – 25th.  See the ad below for details.  Also worn:  Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Mocca
  • Hair:  PADO – narie
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Makeup:  HypeDernier – Eyeliner Set Vol 1
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles; DeeTaleZ – Makeup & Addon, Moles Pack
  • Nails:  MiuMiu – #28
  • Pose:  NANTRA – Bird Watcher
  • Backdrop:  Midnyte Creations – Autumn Photo Box

You’re the song I can’t get out of my head

http://You're the song I can't get out of my head

My brain has been stuck on a song for days.  I can’t get it out of my head, and I don’t even know what song it is.  It’s starting to make me a bit batty, but I know that soon enough its power will diminish, and my life will return to its normal soundtrack.  Though admittedly, probably not for long.  I’m one of those obsessive personalities, where one thing just gets stuck… a song, a book, a creative project… something that suddenly claims the focal spot in my brain, where my thoughts just keep centering, no matter what I’m doing.  And yes, it happens with people too, though in that situation it’s more of a thoughts keep drifting to, rather than an obsessive focus (which is probably a good thing, otherwise it would be stalker mode lol!!!).  But back to that song…

  • Dress:  JUMO Originals – Brenda.   Classically sexy with a sweetheart neckline, this mid-calf dress hits all the right notes! Includes an optional sash belt plus a HUD with 20 rich satin colors & 10 printed textures (see the ad below).  100% ORIGINAL mesh & textures, Brenda is sized for Legacy, GenX Classic + Curvy, Maitreya & Signature, & is EXCLUSIVELY available at the August round of Designer Showcase, open through Aug 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Mocca
  • Hair:  WINGSDG – ES0808
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Makeup:  Hype – “Something” Eyeshadow; Sequoia – Madalina BOM Eyeshadow
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Nails:  LIVIA – Mixit Pro Nails, Square
  • Jewelry:  Maxi Gossamer – Giselle Opal Necklace & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Shoes:  KC Couture – Dacy Heels
  • Pose:  Focus Poses – My Piano Is My Happy Place

 

Feeling the Heat in London

http://Feeling the Heat in London

It feels like the part of the world where I live is melting… it’s just been so hot that I’m spending most of my time being a homebody, escaping into the AC.  I really can’t imagine living down here in Florida without it, I don’t know how people did it (and sadly, I’m sure there are still plenty of people who do; back in NY they opened up cooling centers in extreme heat so that those without AC had a place to go to cool off).  Bottom line, I’ve had a lot of time at home, so I’ve been spending a great deal of it inworld.  I’ve been very unhappy with what has happened to the neighborhood for my two mainland lots (one for human habitation, one for fae), so I’ve been shopping for/buying land.  And that means re-landscaping which I love love LOVE to do.  Small lots are challenging, both in terms of space AND prims, and I’m trying to do both lots without buying anything… just digging deep into the bottomless pits of inventory.  It’s amazing what you find!  I even found an animated sea turtle in the bottom of MY inventory which is perfect for Thea’s new mermaid area! I’m still waiting for my 2nd lot to come through (it’s on abandoned land), but it’s right next to Thea’s new home, which will really simplify my life inworld rather than having to keep TPing back and forth.  That said, I obviously took some breaks to work on shoots… and having just spent a few days in London back in June, this shot was just so much fun, bringing up memories from what was a really excellent time (though it was hot, hot, hot when we were in London, and unlike Florida, air conditioning is a LOT more limited… I thought I was going to pass out on one of those hop on/hop off buses without AC or even a fan!  We are so spoiled, but you learn to adjust, no matter where you are, because that’s just part of life! Enjoy it!

  • Outfit:  pm : purple moon creations – Iris Blouse & Trousers.  LOVE this look… the wrap straps, the sheer sleeves with that hint of flutter, the way the pants fit “just right”, & the patterns! So hard to choose for this shot! Each is sold in its own fatpack with a HUD (20 pattern textures for the blouse with 10 solids for the straps; 48 solids for the pants & for the belt) or as part of a Megapack with all choices included. (See the ad below.) Sized for Legacy+Perky, Maitreya, Kupra, & Reborn+Waifu, Iris is EXCLUSIVELY available at the August round of Designer Showcase, open Aug 5th – 25th.  Demo available.
  • Hair:  Analog Dog – Zoey.  Three modifications to this fabulously curly style, plus the mix HUD with 94 preset textures to choose from plus a tinter!  Fitted mesh with materials enabled, Zoey is at the NEWLY updated TLC Event (The Liaison Collaborative), which is now a biweekly event featuring a mix of exclusives as well as discount items.  Zoey is specially priced at just 50L$ through August 16th!  Demo available. 
  • Backdrop:  Synnergy Tavis – Central London.  A {360} backdrop with materials enabled, there are so many different angles & shots — from the iconic red phone booth facing the London doubledecker bus & Big Ben to an equally iconic black cab with the Thames & Parliament to the street itself that is lined with storefronts & small residences with mailboxes — that you can use this backdrop again & again, & get a completely different pic each time. (See the ad below.)  This is a NEW RELEASE that is EXCLUSIVELY available at the new biweekly TLC Event (The Liaison Collaborative), through August 16th.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Mocca
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Glasses:  Bondi – Tony Sunglasses
  • Bag:  LaGyo – Summer Vibes Satchel Bag
  • Jewelry:  Maxi Gossamer – Ayla Moon Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  [piXit] – Gothababy

Bad Habits

http://Bad Habits

I’ve been thinking quite a bit lately about my bad habits… we all have them (at least, I think we do lol; and it should be noted that I’m NOT talking about nasty habits, which are something else entirely).  Some bad habits are lifelong — like late night snacking — which we fight to control day in, day out.  Others are new — like these stupid phone apps that suck you in where you’re thinking “why not, what’s $1.99” until the monthly bill comes, at which time you immediately hit DELETE APP.  Is Second Life a bad habit?  I know MANY people would say so, and in some ways, they’re right.  There was a time when SL was (in retrospect) way too high a priority for me.  I would turn down RL invitations because of someone I wanted to see or something I wanted to do on the grid.  And although I still spend quite a bit of time inworld (and quite a bit of money!), it’s more controlled, more centered on time that would otherwise be spent just watching the TV or other completely non-constructive activities, and budgeted with a monthly allowance that I’m comfortable with (though I’ll admit there are exceptions — new head, new body, new land — that come to mind, but NEVER on a whim any more).   I sometimes question my addiction, but the fact remains that for the most part, SL makes me happy and fulfills a need.  I love playing the grown-up version of Barbie; I love building and landscaping and creating (and recreating!) a home, I love setting up and doing photo shoots (I needed to take a bit of a break to rediscover that though); and I love spending time/talking with the friends I’ve made here.  So, bad habits?

  • Outfit:  {Le’La} – Serafina.   The minute I saw this outfit, I knew without hesitation that it was ME.  I love the cut, I love the rich satiny texture, I love the HUD with 35 colors that can be assigned individually to the left/right sides of the top, the left/right sides of the pants, the top band, & the pants laces so that I could create the perfect look for me at THIS moment, & then can create something completely different next time.  Sized for Legacy+Perky, Maitreya+Petite, GenX Classic+Curvy, Kupra, Reborn, & Erika, Serafina is EXCLUSIVELY available at the August round of Designer Showcase, open Aug 5th – 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  [theSkinnery] – Alanis in Mocca
  • Hair:  TRUTH – Dusk
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Makeup:  Hype – “Something” Eyeshadow;  theMars – Night Party Gloss
  • Jewelry:  Maxi Gossamer – Giselle Opal Necklace & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  [piXit] – Bad Habits

The Cathouse

http://In the CathouseYup, I’ve fallen for an animal print again… I actually struggled as to WHICH of the different animal prints to go for with this adorable dress, but I definitely felt drawn to the big cats… & to be fair to the little ones too I just had to get them in the shot!  But time is ticking ticking ticking down to my impending vacation, so no time to chit chat… only time to SHOP, SHOP, SHOP!!! Enjoy!

  • Dress:  ALTER – Paulina Mini Dress.  A fetching mini dress with a slightly asymmetric hem (& I DO mean “mini”, especially in the back lol) & an artfully off-shoulder strap on one side.  Available in your choice of 23 textures (patterns, solids, & animal prints) or in a fatpack & sized for Legacy + Perky + Perky Petite, Maitreya + Petite + Pushup Nerido, GenX Classic + Curvy, eBody Reborn + Juicy, & Kupra Kups + Original, Paulina is EXCLUSIVELY available at the May round of Designer Showcase, open through May 25th.  Demo available.
  • Hair:  Analog Dog – Yenn.  Fitted mesh in the curly style that Analog Dog is known for, Yenn is available in any of 5 color packs, a Mix pack, or a Fatpack of all color choices.  Includes 3 styles.  EXCLUSIVELY at the current round of The Liaison Collaborative, open May 18th – June 10th.  Demo available.
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Brown-Eyed Girl.  From the day I first entered Second Life in 2007,  I’ve changed my appearance more times than I can remember, but two things have remained constant — I’m always a redhead (except for the occasional blog shoot) & I’ve always had green eyes.  I do have to say that with these eyes, that may now be changing! With 9 tones in each of two styles (some of which are hazelly-green!), I’ve fallen in love with the warmth & depth of these eyes… & they do look SOOOO good with the red hair!  Available for 25% OFF at the current round of The Liaison Collaborative, open May 18th – June 10th.  Demo available.
  • Jewelry:  Heartsdale Jewelry – Tuscany Collection.  Stunning necklace & earrings with a color change HUD (3 metals + 3 colors for the beads as shown in the ad below).  Available for 25% OFF at the May round of Designer Showcase, open through May 25th.  Also worn:  Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  DeeTaleZ – Esra in Chantilly
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Makeup:  Sequoia – Anabella BOM Eyeshadow + Madalina BOM Eyeshadow; Dernier – Eyeliner Set Vol 1; Temizi – Cherry Lipgloss
  • Nails:  Miumiu – #38

Play Misty for Me

http://Play Misty for Me

I’m a romantic at heart, and although this movie classic is a thriller, it starts off so dreamy that it’s always been a favorite and the mere mention of the song puts stars in my eyes and puts me in a wistful state of mind.  This scene instantly created the thought in my mind, and I decided to just follow the notes… How can I go wrong with a gown like this?  (POSTNOTE: Who knew that I’d used this title back in 2019 and talked about the movie then too??? I guess it definitely is a favorite lol!!!)

  • Gown:  Celestinas – Maisie Gown Dress, worn in Sienna.  Includes Cristal necklace & earrings.  It takes a lot to create a gown that is stylish, sexy, with interesting detail but is not overwhelming… one that enhances your beauty rather than dominating it.  This gown, with its sheen & contrasting panels is stunning but it is NOT the star of the show… instead it uses its magic to put me in the spotlight, & THAT is what fashion is (or should be) all about.  Available in 11 single colors or as a fatpack. Maisie is sized for Legacy, Hourglass, Freya, Maitreya, & Reborn.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the May round of Designer Showcase, open through May 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  DeeTaleZ – Esra in Chantilly
  • Hair:  FAGA – Jess
  • Eyes:  Euphoric – Hae
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Makeup:  Synergy – Calera HD Eyeshadow; Dernier – Eyeliner Set Vol 1; TheMars – Night Party Gloss
  • Dog:  JIAN – Corgi, red tri sleeper
  • Pose:  STUN Poses – Shelly

Morning Errands After A Long Night Out

http://Morning Errands After A Long Night Out

My days of staying up all night are long gone, but I definitely do remember them!  The semi-exhaustion permeating everything, the “whatever, I’m not taking the time to change, let’s just get it done” attitude, the goal to handle all the necessary errands in order to just get back home and fall into bed… I’m still considered quite a night owl, especially considering that I live in the south where people tend to rise earlier to beat the heat and then they cocoon inside for most of the day.  I lived in NY for almost my entire life, and I still run on a variation of that schedule, although it’s admittedly a lot more difficult to go out and eat a late dinner down here lol!  I also never looked quite so stylish, especially after being out all night, but then again, this is SL and we can all look as stylish as we want, whenever and wherever!  Well, a few more stops, and I’m home to bed!!! Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  WILD Fashion – Lexa.  Includes leggings with sheer panels, two alternate tops, optional sleeves, & a 30-texture HUD (see the ad below).  Sized for Legacy + Perky, Maitreya, Reborn + Juicy, Kupra, & GenX Curvy.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the May round of Designer Showcase, open through May 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  DeeTaleZ – Esra in Chantilly
  • Hair:  TRUTH – Muse
  • Eyes:  Euphoric – Hae
  • Tattoo:  Juna – Pekka
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Makeup:  Sequoia – Anabella BOM Eyeshadow;  Dernier – Eyeliner Set Vol 1
  • Jewelry:  Heartsdale Jewelry – Dhoom Machalay Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Bag/Coffee:  tarte x Stories&Co – Weekend Errands
  • Shoes:  KC Couture – Merel Plateau
  • Dog:  JIAN – Great Danes, Puppies
  • Pose:  STUN Poses – Botan
  • Location:  Sainte Rose Sur Mer & BarDeco

Since You’ve Been Gone Away…

http://Since You've Been Gone

Everytime I think of you, I always catch my breath
And I’m still standing here, and you’re miles away
And I’m wonderin’ why you left
And there’s a storm that’s raging through my frozen heart tonight

I hear your name in certain circles, and it always makes me smile
I spend my time thinkin’ about you, and it’s almost driving me wild
And there’s a heart that’s breaking down this long distance line tonight

I ain’t missing you at all since you’ve been gone away
I ain’t missing you, no matter what I might say

There’s a message in the wire, and I’m sending you this signal tonight
You don’t know how desperate I’ve become
And it looks like I’m losing this fight
In your world I have no meaning, though I’m trying hard to understand
And it’s my heart that’s breaking down this long distance line tonight

I ain’t missing you at all since you’ve been gone away
I ain’t missing you, no matter what my friends say

And there’s a message that I’m sending out, like a telegraph to your soul
And if I can’t bridge this distance, stop this heartbreak overload

I ain’t missing you at all since you’ve been gone away
I ain’t missing you, no matter what my friends say

I ain’t missing you, I ain’t missing you, I can lie to myself

And there’s a storm that’s raging through my frozen heart tonight

I ain’t missing you at all since you’ve been gone away
I ain’t missing you, no matter what my friends say

Ain’t missing you, I ain’t missing you
I ain’t missing you, I can lie to myself
Ain’t missing you, I ain’t missing you
I ain’t missing you, I ain’t missing you
I ain’t missing you, I ain’t missing you, ain’t missing you, oh no
No matter what my friends might say, I ain’t missing you…

Once again, naming a pic has been way too difficult. Sometimes I have an attitude in mind when I go to shoot; other times it might be the scene or a song that suggests one.  But in the vast majority, I’m just playing with different poses for whatever setting I’ve chosen to use, and since that attitude just kind of “happens”, they are (for me, anyway) the absolute hardest to title.  It used to be that I’d sometimes struggle for hours (or even a day lol) to come up with the “perfect” title.  Now I’ve learned that (a) there is no such perfection (I always ALWAYS come up with something better after the fact), (b) that it just doesn’t matter to anyone but me, & (c) that it just wastes a lot of time.  Right now, I’m running as fast as I can with all the things on my to-do list, so I’m just going with what I’ve got…  Happy Shopping!

  • Dress:  Ruxy Designs – Zenaida.  This is one of those dresses that just makes me sigh… I absolutely adore the lace texture on the skirt, especially when the light hits it in just the right way.  Add to that the perfectly placed leg slit, the suggestively low bodice with its perfectly placed ruffle, & the stunning pattern, well, I have a new favorite go-to!  Includes a HUD with 10 colors for the dress & 10 colors for the lace so you can mix ‘n’ match, with a totally different “vibe” when you choose the same colors for both (see the ad below).  Sized for Legacy + Perky + Perky Nerida & Maitreya + DOMINA, she is EXCLUSIVELY available at the April round of Designer Showcase, open through April 25th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  DeeTaleZ – Esra in Chantilly
  • Hair:  Stealthic – Purity
  • Eyes:  Euphoric – Hae
  • Freckles/Moles:  DS’ELLES – Charm Moles
  • Nails:  Dalila – Golden Designs Nail Kit
  • Shoes:  KC Couture – Zoe Mules
  • Pose:  STUN Poses – Vanille
  • Location:  Buddha Garden