Um, hello?

https://Um, hello?

So one thing I’ve noticed over the years as I’ve gotten older… it can be a LOT harder to get service in bars and places like that.  When you’re in your 20s and 30s, especially if you’re attractive, bartenders and maitre d’s JUMP to help you.  As you age, you become more invisible.  One place in particular – the Spice Market in NYC – really stands out in my mind; it was so frustrating we actually walked out rather than have a drink and then dinner.  No way were we going to give them our hard-earned money when they ignored us.  That said, if I looked like this, wearing an outfit like this, I doubt that would happen, but then again, I’m overly dressed for some SL venues lol!  Anyway, I LOVE this look, and doubt I’ll be ignored anywhere I go!  I hope you like it as much as I do! Enjoy!

  • Outfit:  PURPLEMOON – Kendal.  What a stunning little outfit!  Is it the wide leather cinch belt (it’s really a corset)? the unbuttoned shirt?  the “panels” on the skirt?  No matter, it’s a winning combination!  And the textures just kick it over the top!  Me, I always go for the stripes, but this time, I was awfully tempted to go with a solid (see the ad below and you’ll see why).  There are 11 different combos to choose from, or a megapack that has them all.  Sized for Reborn+Waifu, Legacy+Perky, Maitreya+Petite+LaraX+PetiteX, & GenX Classic+Curvy, Kendal is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the current round of Designer Showcase, open Nov 5th – 20th.  Demo available (just click on the big pic).
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  eBody – Reborn
  • Skin:  Amara Beauty – Monia, in Rose Kiss (body skin by Velour)
  • Hair:  DOUX – Dani
  • Eyes:  EUPHORIC – Freya
  • Moles:  Moccino – GIFT (Face); Ambar Beauty – Natural Moles (Body)
  • Makeup:  Izzie’s – Whiskey Smokey Eye Make-up; Sequoia – Safron LS
  • Tattoo:  VENGE – Boheme
  • Jewelry:   Z O O M – Zuri Earrings; L&B Jewelry – Radiance Ring
  • Pose:  STUN – Juliana
  • Location:  Loxford

A roadside break…

https://A roadside break

Love this look, but this outfit pulled me in two very different ways… first, I leant towards “redefining biker babe style”.  But then I did a whole shoot that just wasn’t sitting right, and then the overall look I’d done evoked in me the feeling of driving long winding roads.  When I started playing with poses, this idea grabbed me and made me feel very European (maybe it’s the cigarette??) while also invoking a simpler time (the hairdo is very 50s I think, but before my time lol).  So in my mind, here I am, feeling very European driving along the coast in Southern Italy.  I can’t pinpoint WHY all of this is playing in my mind, but honestly, who cares? I felt great, thought I looked great, and had a great time cruising around some winding roads in my roadster with my little dog for company till I pulled off for a little roadside break… Whatever makes you happy, right? Now for some shopping happiness, lol…

  • Outfit:  Sascha’s Designs (SAS) – Hiba.  A stylized cropped jacket & pants in classic black, Hiba includes a 12-color HUD for the top (see the ad below). Sized for Reborn+Waifu, Legacy, Maitreya+LaraX, Hiba is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the current round of Designer Showcase, open Nov 5th – 20th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  eBody – Reborn
  • Skin:  Amara Beauty – Monia, in Rose Kiss (body skin by Velour)
  • Hair:  TRUTH – Muse
  • Eyes:  EUPHORIC – Freya
  • Moles:  Moccino – GIFT (Face); Ambar Beauty – Natural Moles (Body)
  • Makeup:  Sequoia – Amina BOM ES & Alice HD LS
  • Tattoo:  VENGE – Boheme
  • Jewelry:   Maxi Gossamer – Love Surrender Earrings; L&B Jewelry – Radiance Ring
  • Pose:  LOVEBREAK – 203 Car Model Set
  • Dog:  JIAN Pets – Italian Greyhound
  • Location:  somewhere on the roads in Second Norway

Happiness is a successful book hunt!

https://Happiness is a successful book hunt!

I’m a reader, and I definitely read a lot, generally speaking at least one book a week (this year I’ve already read 62 books, though that admittedly includes some titles I abandoned part-way through).  A bookstore — especially a 2nd hand bookstore! — is one of my happy places, especially when I find a book that’s been on my wishlist for years that for which I haven’t been willing to pay full-price (which is most books lol). That thrill of a successful book hunt is quite heady, and if I’m lucky, the title in question lives up to it.  But even if it doesn’t and ends up abandoned, that high of discovery remains! Happy shopping, whatever you seek!

  • Outfit:  KiB Designs – Kiera.  Who says style has to be complicated?  True style is effortless!  And that’s Kiera… she includes a HUD with 27 solid textures for the top, & 27 plaid textures for the skirt (see the ad below). Sized for Reborn+Waifu, Legacy+Perky+Bombshell, & LaraX, Kiera is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the current round of Designer Showcase, open Nov 5th – 20th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  eBody – Reborn
  • Skin:  Amara Beauty – Monia, in Rose Kiss (body skin by Velour)
  • Hair:  Sintiklia – Teo
  • Eyes:  EUPHORIC – Freya
  • Moles:  Moccino – GIFT (Face); Ambar Beauty – Natural Moles (Body)
  • Makeup:  Sequoia – Anabella BOM ES; CAZIMI – Lizhi Lips 2K Red
  • Tattoo:  VENGE – Boheme
  • Jewelry:   Maxi Gossamer – Love Surrender Earrings; L&B Jewelry – Radiance Ring
  • Bag:  AsteroidBox – Stud Clutch Bag
  • Pose:  Secret Poses – Violet (includes books; modified for bag)
  • Location:  Blackthorne Book Cafe

Bewitching…

https://Bewitching...

Having a fae alt, the idea of dressing up for Halloween just doesn’t do that much for me. Interestingly enough, that’s how Thea got her start… I dressed up as a fairy for Halloween (my partner Durzle as an elf) for a long-ago Halloween, and I loved having wings so much that I created a whole other identity.  That said, when you’re out dancing for your Friday date night and it happens to be Halloween — so the majority of people are in costume and the music is almost exclusivity Halloween themed — you have to at least give a nod to the holiday.  THIS then, is my nod to Halloween… and my partner found it to be utterly bewitching!!!  I’ll just put the witch hat away till next year, but the dress, well that is going to stay front and center in my closet!

  • Outfit:  Allure Couture – Nyxxie Dress.  Such a different shape, with the pointy tops on the “corset”, the poofy upper arms, the stockings & shoes… all of which I didn’t think I’d like but I felt so awesome wearing it!  And the witch hat, such an amazing shape with the curly tip & the color edging & ribbon… felt so cool!!! Available in 8 single 100% Original Textures or in a HUD-driven Fatpack with 12 mix ‘n match options for the dress, c-string, heels & stockings.  There’s also a separate HUD for the ribbon & trim on the awesome witch hat.  Nyxxie is sized for Reborn+Waifus, Legacy+Bombshell+Perky, Maitreya+Petite+LaraX+PetiteX, Erika & Kupra.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  eBody – Reborn
  • Skin:  Amara Beauty – Monia, in Rose Kiss (body skin by Velour)
  • Hair:  DOUX – Peach
  • Eyes:  EUPHORIC – Freya
  • Makeup:  HYPE – Something ES; Holloway Beauty – Aiyanna LS
  • Moles:  Moccino – GIFT (Face); Ambar Beauty – Natural Moles (Body)
  • Tattoo:  VENGE – Boheme
  • Jewelry:  L&B Jewelry – Radiance Ring

Dancing in the Flames

https://Dancing in the Flames

If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my life (and hopefully I’ve learned more than this one thing lol) is that sometimes it all burns down (either intentionally or not) and you have two choices… either sit there and lament, or dance in the flames.  And sometimes, it’s just good to feel the heat… A bit too philosophical for me today, but that’s the mood I’m in lol! Enjoy!

  • Outfit:  COVETED! – Zahra Purple.  A complete look, perfect for the holiday & — if you’re into the dark side of fantasy — for everyday role-playing.  Includes the top, skirt, & sleeves, all with small gold spikes, plus the horns, animated wings, claws, & animated tail (complete with HUD to control the animation).  See the ad below for greater detail. Sized for Legacy+Perky+Bombshell, Reborn+Waifu, Maitreya+Petite+LaraX+LaraXPetite, & GenX, Zahra is available at the current round of Enchanted Realms, open just a few more days through Nov 1st.  Demo available.
  • Head & Ears:  LeLUTKA – Camila
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  Gloom – Arikel, worn in Gray Alien (body skin by Velour)
  • Hair:  KMH – F163
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Forest Fae
  • Makeup:  Nuve – Swan Makeup
  • Jewelry:  Rakshasa – Necklace Joen; Faetal – Fifer Ears
  • Pose:  Stardust – Princess
  • Backdrop: The Bearded Guy – Burning Heaven

Finding the Perfect Pumpkin

https://Finding the perfect pumpkin

Fall is officially here, even in Florida!  It never truly feels fall-like to me here because we don’t get that brilliant change of color in the trees or that crunch of leaves underfoot, but I am having to wear a sweater and long pants when walking the dog at night.  Thankfully I can still experience all of that (well, not the crunchy leaves but then I’m comfy inside at my desk lol) here on the grid…  And as soon as we find that perfect pumpkin, the carving will begin!!!  Happy fall and happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  Carol’s Store – Aster Sweater.   A perfect knit top for that newly fall weather with its nip of chillier air!  Love the knit texture on this cropped sweater with its mock turtle neck & loosed almost-puffy sleeves.  Available in 10 single colors, or as a fatpack with a color-picker included in its HUD so you can customize colors to create something totally unique (which I did). ORIGINAL MESH with materials enabled, Aster is sized for Reborn+Waifu, Legacy+Perky+Bombshell, Lara+LaraX+PetiteX, Kupra, Erika, Momma, & Nhuma.  (See the ad below) EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the current round of Dubai, open Oct 20th – Nov 15th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  eBody – Reborn
  • Skin:  Amara Beauty – Monia, in Rose Kiss (body skin by Velour)
  • Hair:  bonbon – nadia
  • Eyes:  EUPHORIC – Freya
  • Makeup: HYPE – Something ES; Temizi – Cherry Lipgloss
  • Moles:  Moccino – GIFT (Face); Ambar Beauty – Natural Moles (Body)
  • Jewelry:   Maxi Gossamer – Coachella Gypsy Necklace & Earrings; L&B Jewelry – Radiance Ring
  • Pose:  Animosity – The Pumpkin Patch (includes that perfect pumpkin!)
  • Backdrop:  Synnergy Tavis – Cabin in the Woods

Goddess of Darkness

https://Goddess of Darkness

I’m not really a dark fae, I lean much more towards the side of light and nature.  But I definitely have my moments!!!  Then again, as a “true” fae, someone who lives this role almost every single day, I’m not a real fan of Halloween.  All these humans donning all these kitschy costumes and are all just so cute in their little pretend fantasies.  But THIS outfit, THIS is true fantasy.  This is not a costume, this is a full character, one who could easily live year-round, going around spreading her lovely darkness.  LOVE IT! This is what fantasy is all about… whether for full-time role-playing or for Halloween.  Check it out yourself at this round of Enchanted Realms (lots of other goodies too)!

  • Outfit:  V8 Underground – Goddess of Darkness.  WOW.  I mean, just WOW.  Everything, & I mean EVERYTHING is included in this look… the bodysuit, the corset, the opera gloves, the thigh-high boots, the collar, the shoulders, skull accessories, the magnificent helm complete with horns, even the hair, & then there are the incredible animesh wings, the animesh tail (I’ve never had a tail before, it’s awesome lol), & then of course the amazing Darkness Weapon (see the ad below).  Amazing, simply amazing! Sized for Legacy+Perky, Reborn, Maitreya+LaraX, Kupra, & Erica, she is available at the current round of Enchanted Realms, open through Nov 1st.  Demo available.
  • Head & Ears:  LeLUTKA – Camila
  • Body:  LEGACY – Mesh Body Special Edition, Feminine
  • Skin:  Gloom – Calin, worn in Devil (body skin by Velour)
  • Eyes:  lovelysweet – Forest Fae
  • Pose:  [piXit] – L’eternite (includes skull in hand)
  • Companion:  Jinx – Swoopy Nevil
  • Backdrop:  SATO – Ancient Underground

Sound check…

https://Sound Check

Sometimes I wonder why I love party clothes and getting all dressed up in SL, when IRL I’m mostly a t-shirt and leggings kind of gal… maybe that’s why lol… It’s just so much fun and so much EASIER to get dressed up on the grid, and I always look fabulous… Especially when I slip into a dress like this one!!!  It’s show time!!! Enjoy…

  • Outfit:  I.M. Collection – Hocus.  You’re ready to party in this awesome little dress with a neck “collar strap”, open lace sides, a low-strung hip belt, plus optional “belted” gloves!  Sized for Reborn, Legacy, & LaraX, she is available in 8 single textures or as a fatpack with 20 separate color options for the dress, the belt, the gloves, & the glove belts (see the ad below).   She is EXCLUSIVELY AVAILABLE at the current round of Designer Showcase, open JUST ONE MORE DAY, through Oct 20th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  eBody – Reborn
  • Skin:  Amara Beauty – Monia, in Rose Kiss (body skin by Velour)
  • Hair:  Sintiklia – Haven
  • Eyes:  EUPHORIC – Freya
  • Moles:  Moccino – GIFT (Face); Ambar Beauty – Natural Moles (Body)
  • Makeup:  CAZIMI – Ethereal ES & LS 2K
  • Jewelry:  Z O O M – Zuri Earrings; L&B Jewelry – Radiance Ring
  • Shoes:   Essenz – Espoo
  • Pose:  [piXit] – Juliette
  • Backdrop:  Synnergy Tavis – Velvet Nite

Rescue Me!

https://Rescue Me!

I’ve been struggling what to write here… things that are going wrong are popping up all over the place again (and yes, even on my newly transferred blog)… I need to be rescued by just some nice, relaxing time in SL… it won’t solve my issues, but it give me time to calm down and start breathing normally again!  That said, I’m off! Enjoy whatever it is you choose to do!!!

  • Outfit:  JUMO – Juliana.  Includes blouse, skirt & bag, all with a rather elegant, sophisticated feel IMHO.  Sized for Reborn+Waifu, GenX Classic+Curvy, Legacy, LaraX, & Kupra, Juliana includes a HUD with 15 “smooth” colors, 5 floral prints, & 5 Chinese prints (see the ad below).  Available for 20% OFF at the current round of Designer Showcase, open Oct 5th – 20th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  eBody – Reborn
  • Skin:  Amara Beauty – Monia, in Rose Kiss (body skin by Velour)
  • Hair:  S-CLUB – Elma
  • Eyes:  EUPHORIC – Freya
  • Moles:  Moccino – GIFT (Face); Ambar Beauty – Natural Moles (Body)
  • Tattoo:  VENGE – Boheme
  • Makeup:  HYPE – Something ES; IVES – Passione Lips layered w/ Temizi – Cherry Lipgloss
  • Jewelry:   Maxi Gossamer – Harmony Heart Necklace & Earrings; L&B Jewelry – Radiance Ring
  • Pose:  STUN – Aurora

Sure you’re ready for this?

https://Sure you're ready for this?

Well, SL life and blogging goes on… My blog is up and working, with a few bugs to figure out (if I can, WP and web designing/managing is definitely outside of my wheelhouse); my beach lot — which I had set up and maintained basically for blogging beachy stuff, but rarely used) — is emptied and up for sale.  Found some abandoned land I like for Thea’s new home (I’m giving her my tier allowance so she can have a bigger place for HER fantasy blogging/SL life)… and of course there’s always SL date night and dancing, dancing, dancing!!! Ready to trip the light fantastic????  Whatever you choose to do, enjoy!!! Smiles, and poofs…

  • Dress:  ALTER – Tokio Mini Dress.  WOW, did I fall big time for this dress!  The look, the styling of it, is a combination of modern, classical grecian, elegance & sexiness.  I, of course, went with one of the animal prints, which are subtly sophisticated.  (So many adjectives, lol, can you tell how much I love this look lol?)  Sized for Reborn+Waifu, Legacy+Perky, & Lara+LaraX, Tokio is available in 8 single colors or as a fatpack with a 20-color HUD. She is featured at the current round of Designer Showcase, open Oct 5th – 20th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  LeLUTKA – Nova Head (EvoX)
  • Body:  eBody – Reborn
  • Skin:  Amara Beauty – Monia, in Rose Kiss (body skin by Velour)
  • Hair:  TRUTH – Joy
  • Eyes:  EUPHORIC – Freya
  • Moles:  Moccino – GIFT (Face); Ambar Beauty – Natural Moles (Body)
  • Tattoo:  VENGE – Boheme
  • Makeup:  CAZIMI – Icing Eyeshadow; Velour – “TIKTOK DIVA” LS
  • Jewelry:  Zibska – Emma Earrings; L&B Jewelry – Radiance Ring
  • Nails:  Eventyra – Worn Satin
  • Pose:  BOHEME – Harmonie Sublime
  • Backdrop:  LORI NOVO – Club, Crimson Glow