Smart Ass

http://Smart Ass

We all have our personality traits and I’ll admit it: I’ve always been known as something of a smart ass. It’s true in both real life and in Second Life.  I even have it right there on my profile! And now I have a jacket that says it out in the open in a fashionable way for all the grid to see and be forewarned.  Not one of your traits? No worries! This awesome little jacket has 7 other color/saying options, one of which is sure to be perfect for you! (See the pic below).  So whether you’re a Smart Ass like me, Queen of Everything or just want everyone to Be Kind, happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  Graffitiwear – Ladies Jacket.  8 options available (see below) plus a fatpack. Sized for Tonic, Slink H/P, Belleza F/V, & Maitreya.  At this round of the Designer Circle 22/19, open Nov 3rd – 16th.  Demo available.
  • Skin:  7 Deadly s[K]ins – Marye, worn in Caramel browless.  Another beautiful Omega skin, two options of 5 tones each (dark or light, including both omega & BOM, with & without brows) available AT DISCOUNT for just 450L at the Designer Circle 22/19, open Nov 3rd – 16th. Shape & demos also available.
  • Head: Tonic – NEW! Pixie, the all-new bento head from Tonic, now available at the main store
  • Body: Tonic – Curvy Beauty + Booty Control… truly the most natural curves on the grid with the ability to add that extra oomph how & if you want it!
  • Hair:  TRUTH – Shadow (current VIP Gift)
  • Brows:  Avada – Anja Eyebrows
  • Mole/Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega)
  • Jewelry:  EarthStones – Inlaid Harmony Necklace & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Nails:  Encore – Shades of Purple
  • Pose:  LW: Bento Poses – Autumn Leaves
  • Location:  my home in Blake Passage

Autumn Leaves Must Fall

http://Autumn Leaves

I’ve been waxing on about the beauty of fall for several blogs now.  And while it is definitely beautiful, it is also downright chilly.  And now that daylight savings time has ended, it gets so dark so early, I have to carry a flashlight when I walk the dog on her early evening walk.  On top of all that, I’m suddenly feeling sick and pretty miserable.  I do tend to always get a bad cold at this time of year, so I’m hoping that’s all it is. Of course, the media doesn’t help with all their dire warnings of the flu. Bottom line, I’m not feeling the most creative or chatty, so I’m cutting the bloggy part short, and heading right into the fashion details… which is why you’re here!!! Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  AnaSTyle – Patrizia, worn in Black&Brown (5 other color options also available).  This is such an awesome little dress… it’s leather, but doesn’t have that all-so-typical “I’m a sexy leather biker dress” vibe, it has way more class & style than that, while still having that “cool” factor. Includes the thigh high boots & silver bracelet. Sized for Slink H/P, Belleza F/I/V, eBody, Maitreya & Classic.  EXCLUSIVELY at the Designer Circle 22/19, open Nov 3rd – 16th.  Demo available.
  • Hat:  Stone’s Works –  Fall Acorn Hunting Top Hat. What fun!!!! A little black top hat (with a resizer built in, so it easily resizes to fit your head & hair style), with a wide brown band (that happily matches the bottom of my dress!), topped by some wintry trees (one even has sparkling holiday lights!), a pile of leaves, & the cutest little chipmunks hunting for acorns. See below for a closeup of this amazing fun hat, that can just add that perfect finishing touch to an outfit! Discounted as part of the new round of The Creative Spark, until Nov 15th. 
  • Head:  Akeruka (AK) – Cleo (deluxe bento, now with BOM)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Flora (Freckled version)
  • Hair:  Doux – Aysha
  • Eyes:  IKON – Triumph
  • Lashes/Makeup:  SlackGirl –  Thay Deluxe Lashes; Talita Lips
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega)
  • Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer – Night Diva Jewelled SuperStar Choker & Earrings (the earrings are the current GROUP GIFT); Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Nails:  Go Frock Yourself – Bronze Nail Appliers
  • Pose:  LW: Bento Poses – The Fall
  • Backdrop:  The Olde Attic – Autumn Woodlands Pose Prop

 

Hot and Spicy… Cider

http://Hot and Spicy...Cider

Although things are getting less defined all the time due to “scientific advancements,” every season definitely has its culinary pleasures. My two fall favorites are hot apple cider and pomegranates.  We’re just at the beginning of pomegranate season (bought my first one this weekend!), but at least up here in the increasingly cold and chilly northeastern US, I’ve been happily mulling some hot apple cider for weeks.  I’m a “free-hander”… I measure out the cider by filling up the cup I’m going to drink it in, but then I just pour in the mulling spice until I think there’s enough (which means I’m probably using way too much lol).  Bring to a simmer, pour through a strainer, maybe add a cinnamon stick, and you’re done.  There really is nothing quite like it… hot, spicy, sweet, and tart all at the same time.  Refreshing and warming, soothing and just absolutely delicious.  It’s the very essence of fall, in a cup.  And like fall, it’s really only for a short time, before it’s replaced by the next batch of seasonal goodies… Until then, though, I’ll need to make sure I’m stocked up on those mulling spices so that I can stay warm and satisfied… Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  Xxxtasi & Beauty Kartel – Tayona.   A perfect fall outfit, with a beautiful knit sweater (plunging neckline, of course) & a VERY short little skirt. Includes a texture HUD with 6 color options for the top & 6 for the skirt. Sized for Hourglass, Freya, Isis, Legacy, & Maitreya.  At the Designer Circle 22/19, open Nov 3rd – 16th.  Demo available.
  • Thigh High Socks:  MOoH! – Thigh High Socks for Slink Feet Mist.  SPECIAL DISCOUNT ITEM, these soft & snuggly thigh high socks are available at the main store in 10 colors for a 50% discount, making them just 99L. They are rigged for 7 different bodies + fitmesh in case your particular body isn’t included*, can be worn as full socks or as warmers without the feet, include sizes for high/medium/flat feet, & include a HUD so you can wear them in 10 toasty colors. Perfect to keep your legs warm with those real short skirts! (NOTE: The Slink size included is Physique; since I’m wearing the Hourglass body, I wore the L fitmesh size which didn’t fit “skintight” but worked really well & IMHO looked great… If it didn’t, I wouldn’t have worn them!!!)
  • Head:  Akeruka (AK) – Cleo (deluxe bento, now with BOM)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Flora (Freckled version)
  • Hair:  Doux – Air
  • Eyes:  IKON – Triumph
  • Lashes/Makeup:  SlackGirl –  Thay Deluxe Lashes; EyeShadow HD9; Jessy Lips
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega)
  • Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer – Dream Feathers Necklace & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Shoes:  Bishes Inc – Zipped Boots

Like the breeze blows…

http://You Can't Stop the Breeze from Blowing

And time marches on… It’s soooo cold outside, the ground is completely covered by wet, fallen leaves.  I finally did the “change-over”, putting away all the warm-weather clothes and pulling out all the cold-weather ones. One thing I’ll say about the change of seasons, it really brings home the inexorable march of time, how things continually change, but somehow stay the same. Thankfully Halloween is done (though lots of chocolate still remains, though probably not for long lol); Thanksgiving is on the near horizon (note to self: need to order that turkey!). The BIG holidays not far beyond, then the new year, and so on, and so on…  Life goes on, sometimes tedious and boring, sometimes fresh and exciting, sometimes heart-wrenching and depressing, others glorious and uplifting. That’s life! There are times it’s hard to have hope, not just personally but for the world at large, but I need to believe that things will improve… A little heavy, yes, for a Saturday morning in a little Second Life fashion blog, but hey, what can you do? SHOP! Make YOUR Second Life world better!!! And on that note, happy shopping!!!

  • Outfit:  !!smesh – Davina.   It may not be summer any more, but that doesn’t mean we’re done with the beach! This outfit — which includes the blouse, capris, & incredibly high spiky sandals —  is perfect for those post-summer days.  It boasts wonderful ribbing on the capris, snowflake cut-outs on the top, a double-tie in front, & simply fabulous wide-open cross ties in the back (see below).  Sized for Slink Hourglass, Belleza Freya/Isis, Tonic Fine, eBody Curvy, & Maitreya, this is simply one of those must-haves for your closet! Demo available.
  • Pose:  Salacity – Windy Hat Pose/Prop.  Great pose that includes the hat prop, from a store that seems to have a little bit of everything, all of it FABULOUS!
  • Head:  Akeruka (AK) – Cleo (deluxe bento, now with BOM)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Giulia (Freckled version)
  • Hair:  eXxEsS – Avela
  • Eyes:  IKON – Triumph
  • Lashes/Makeup:  SlackGirl –  Thay Deluxe Lashes
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega)
  • Jewelry: Beloved Jewelry – Modern Flower Set in Silver; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Location:  my home at the Hideaway Collective (private)

All Dolled Up

http://All Dolled Up

Well it’s been a rough month for me personally (a rough few months actually), so I’ll admit that I had some difficulty getting into the spirit of Halloween this year.  So even though today is THE day, I’m avoiding horror and opting for high fashion instead, going with a look that just made me go “ooooh” when I first saw it and “aaaah” when I tried it on. It’s definitely not my normal look; in fact, I even had to adjust my body to get the boa to fit properly, but wow I think it was worth it!  And what better place to strut my little dolled-up look than on the streets of Paris? So instead of Happy Halloween, I’ll just say “Ooh la la!” and leave it there! Either way, happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  Ashmoot – DoLLs Coll O #44.  It may not be a formal gown, but to me, this outfit has so much style, so much joie de vivre, it reminds me of French couture.  Includes the houndstooth corset with matching miniskirt, stockings with garter, mid tip-toe heels, Alice collar bow, big hat, & fur boa.  Sized for Slink H/P, Belleza F/I/V, eBody, Maitreya & Fitted Standard, in single item packs or FULL Outfit pack at promo price, EXCLUSIVELY at the Designer Circle 21/19, open Oct 20th – Nov 2nd.  Demo available.  A We Love to Blog designer.
  • Head:  Akeruka (AK) – Cleo (deluxe bento, with BOM)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Giulia (Freckled version)
  • Hair:  Doux – Aysha
  • Eyes:  IKON – Triumph
  • Lashes/Makeup:  SlackGirl –  Thay Deluxe Lashes; HD9 Shadow; Jessy Lips
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega)
  • Nails:  Livia – Deep Gel Nails
  • Jewelry: (Shiny Things) – Glass Chunk Earrings & Bracelet (extinct vendor); Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Bag:  Indigo – Cleo Diamond Bodega Bag in Black (another extinct vendor)
  • Lingerie (unseen):  MOZ Designs – Tangas Thong in Satin
  • Pose:  Pose Maniacs – Olga Walking Pose 1
  • Location:  Little Paris – Orsay

Wishes

http://Wishes

Wishes. There are so many sayings and so many songs about wishes.  Wishing on a star, wishing and hoping, wishing your life away, blowing out the candles and making a wish, and on and on. And I’ve admittedly made my share of wishes, but the fact is, I honestly believe that for the most part (and yes, you’ll notice I said “for the most part”) you make your own luck.  But I’m mixing things up, because LUCK and WISHES are two totally different things. Some people are just plain lucky; others seem to have little black clouds that follow them everywhere. Karma? Who knows. Maybe I’m just mixing things up even more into one big stew. But wishes?  I think they’re great to make, because they help you focus on what you really want, even if it’s just for the moment. And if it’s what you really really want, you can work towards it. But you know the other saying too… be careful of what you wish for! Because wanting and having are two totally different things. Well, enough of a Monday morning ramble… times have changed, Jiminy Cricket has retired, so I’ll just wish upon a snitch instead!

  • Head: Tonic – NEW! Pixie, the all-new bento head from Tonic.  She’s just so cute!!!!  The HUD now includes BOM buttons for skin & eyes, a new section for controlling the ear shape (regular or elfin!) & ear angle, as well as a full range of Pink Fuel skins in freckled & regular (head only; see below for where to get matching body tones).  You can also hide your teeth if desired.  Includes several different sample shapes & brow shapes, but Pixie is fully mod & Omega-ready so you can easily customize Pixie to be uniquely YOU.  EXCLUSIVELY available for an introductory price of 25% OFF at eBento through the end of October.  Don’t miss this special offer! Demo available.
  • Top:  Apple Heart – Kendra Blouse with Hud.  Love this wrap-style top, cut on the diagonal, held closed by a single button at the neck and then draping in a reverse v! Sized for Tonic, Slink H/P, Belleza F/I/V, eBody Curvy, & Maitreya.  HUD includes 14 solid colors for the top plus 8 textures & 2 metal options for the button & vertical edging.  What makes this really customizable is that you can choose to apply patterns or solids to just the arms or just the “body” of the top, as well as to the tassels. EXCLUSIVELY at the Designer Circle 21/19, open Oct 20th – Nov 2nd.  Demo available.
  • Skin:  7 Deadly s[K]ins – Aryel, worn in Caramel browless.  I’ve again chosen a skin with a gorgeous smattering of freckles & then added even more! Aryel looks so fresh & innocent, I haven’t added a touch of makeup!  Two options of 5 tones each (dark or light, including both omega & BOM) available EXCLUSIVELY at the Sense Event, Oct 18th – Nov 8th. Shape & demos also available.
  • Shoulder Pet:  MOoH! – Golden Snitch.  An animated golden snitch decor item & a shoulder pet that hovers & flaps its wings.  Just  199L at Magik, a small Harry Potter themed event at Muggleborn, Oct 15th – Nov 14th.
  • Pants:  MOZ Designs – High Waist Leggings, worn in linen
  • Body: Tonic – Curvy Beauty + Booty Control… truly the most natural curves on the grid with the ability to add that extra oomph how & if you want it!
  • Hair:  #Foxy – Tini Hair
  • Brows:  Avada – Anja Eyebrows
  • Mole/Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega)
  • Jewelry:  EarthStones – Sentiments Necklace; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Location:  Carolina

Trick or Treat

http://Trick or Treat

So here I was, thinking I was almost all caught up on blogging and would actually be able to make my minimums this month. And then SL decided to act like, well, like SL.  It’s hard to blog when things don’t rez, when skin and makeup don’t apply, when your camera doesn’t function correctly.  FlickR got into the act too with an image not uploading, comments not posting, and one award group that I use a lot just not admitting images to the next level.  That’s when you start questioning if you’re having fun yet lol.  And I couldn’t even birth new kitties or go shopping to make myself feel better, lol, what’s a girl to do? (Seriously, what’s the answer? I could use one, other than go back to real life, which is what I did lol!)  Thankfully, both issues were relatively short-lived, and everything seems back to “normal” (whatever that is).  Now I’m just another photographer-at-work, a bit frantic because we’re approaching end-of-month and I’m wondering how I’m ever going to get it all done lol! And of course on top of all that, it’s Halloween!!!! Definitely trick or treat time! Happy shopping!

  • Outfit:  YoU by GeMyles – Agata Dress.  This satin mini dress is cut ultra-high on one hip & low in the neckline, with a little matching tie to pull the eye exactly where it should go.  Includes a 24-color HUD as well as a bonus black choker that works with all the colors.  Sized for Slink H/P & Maitreya.  Available at the Designer Circle 21/19, open Oct 20th – Nov 2nd.  Demo available.
  • Head:  Akeruka (AK) – Cleo (deluxe bento, now with BOM)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Giulia (Freckled version)
  • Hair:  eXxEsS – Palma
  • Eyes:  IKON – Triumph
  • Lashes/Makeup:  SlackGirl –  Thay Deluxe Lashes; HD9 Shadow; Talita Lips
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega)
  • Nails:  Livia – Elegant Wine Nails
  • Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer – Love Surrender Earrings (past Group Gift); Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Horns:  Stelloane – Daddy’s Monster Horns (a past gift from Swank!)
  • Lingerie (unseen):  MOZ Designs – Tangas Thong in Satin.  You can’t see this on, but that’s the point, isn’t it? These are cut just as high on the hip so they’re perfect for fashions like this… and since they’re satin too, if they someone DOES get a flash, at least they’ll match lol!
  • Pose:  Against the Wall (unknown provenance)
  • Location:  Puddlechurch

Dream On

http://Dream OnSo I’m generally not an animal print or animal skin person.  Don’t get me wrong, when done well, they’re awesome… the problem is that IMHO, they’re rarely done well which means they just look, well, tacky.  This is one outfit that is done EXCEPTIONALLY well.  The texture for the crocodile “skin” itself is AMAZING, and on the pants — falling just below the waist and shaped sooooo perfectly especially for a curvy shape like mine — it’s broken up with perfectly placed mesh insets that add interest, draw the eye, and keep it from being “too much”.  The sexy little open-laced top is also an unquestionable winner.  Granted, some of the colors in the included HUD were a little too far out there for me, but even so, they were still extremely well done.  And there were still several more “natural” crocodile colors — like the silver grey I’m wearing — that made this outfit go on my list of total knockouts! Not only that, but it’s an exclusive item for the Out Shop Cancer event, with the designer donating all proceeds to the cause.  You can see a directory of participating stores at the Strides office on ACS Island as well as on the Making Strides Second Life website.  Talk about a win-win! (well, except for the croc!)

  • Outfit:  in.SANITY Designs – Croc Bite.  This is an EXCLUSIVE item for the Out Shop Cancer event, and will be sold with 100% of proceeds going to support the fight against breast cancer for the duration of the event (through Oct 31st).  Includes a 10-color HUD for both the top & the bottom, with separate options for the laces on the top & the mesh insets on the bottom. Sized for Slink, Belleza, & Maitreya.
  • Head:  Akeruka (AK) – Cleo (deluxe bento, now with BOM)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Giulia (Freckled version)
  • Hair:  Doux – Mecca
  • Eyes:  IKON – Triumph
  • Lashes/Makeup:  SlackGirl –  Thay Deluxe Lashes; AKHD6 EyeShadow; Amata HDLips
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega)
  • Shoes:  KC Couture – Winslet Boots
  • Jewelry: Beloved Jewelry – Spiral Jewelry Set in Silver; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Pose:  STUN Poses – Bluebird Cuddle Van

Standing Out on The Family Tree

http://A strange offshoot of the family tree

Like many people, I often felt like I just didn’t fit on the family tree.  I never quite fit the mold, was always a bit different, more of a rebel, more liberal, more creative, just “more” in so many ways.  And yet with the week I just had with my mom, with a fall and a broken arm sending her slip-sliding unbelievably fast into dementia to the point of not recognizing me the other morning, the thought of family and the solidity of roots of a family tree have suddenly become incredibly important to me.  My mom is now safely ensconced in memory care where they can properly care for her, but my heart is broken at the thought that the mom I’ve known and loved is mostly if not totally gone.  I’d happily embrace being the colorful witchy bitch — or is it the bitchy witch? — to have my family back, but that will never be.  The scary fact is that now I’m the matriarch of my own clan… hopefully it will be a strong, fruitful tree that can bend with the storms of life… As my mom always said, life goes on, and it’s up to us to make it special.

  • Outfit:  YoU by GeMyles – Brooke Romper Outfit/Boots/Fatpack.  5 options are available for this sexy little romper, the difference being the text on the straps (shoulder & cross-straps in back) & belt loops; choose from Diva, Babe, Princess, Slut or my choice, Bitch.  All include a 24 color HUD.  Thigh-high boots in taupe that match the leather belt also available (included in the fatpack). Sized for Slink H/P, Belleza F/I/V, & Maitreya.  EXCLUSIVELY available at the Designer Circle 20/19, open through Oct 19th.  Demo available.
  • Head:  Akeruka (AK) – Cleo (deluxe bento, now with BOM)
  • Body:  Slink – Hourglass Mesh Body Original, Full Version including Hands (Dynamic) & Feet
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Giulia (Freckled version)
  • Hair:  Exile – Into You
  • Eyes:  IKON – Triumph
  • Lashes/Makeup:  SlackGirl –  Thay Deluxe Lashes
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega)
  • Jewelry: Maxi Gossamer – Ayla Moon Goddess Necklace & Earrings; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band
  • Hat: Halloween Witch Hat from inventory
  • Pose:  STUN – Cindy 2 (seems to be Marketplace & Events)
  • Location:  Comhar Photo Studio & Photo Garden

Mirror Mirror

http://Mirror Mirror

I have to admit that all of the “stuff” that goes with dealing with my mom’s situation and helping to move her into memory care is exhausting, physically and mentally.  And the fact that I’m far from home, out of my own environment and comfort zone sure doesn’t help.  Sometimes I look in the mirror and I just wonder how we got to this point.  Life has a nasty habit of just sneaking up on you in that way, doesn’t it?  I do have to say that my life here inworld and my blogging has been a true lifeline for me throughout this process.  It’s both given me another focus and provided an escape where I can forget about life for a while… lol, reminds me of that old Calgon commercial, “Calgon, take me away!”  But in my case, it’s Second Life to the rescue!!!

  • Swimsuit:   Prism by Jezzixa Cazalet – Emily Lingerie.  Sized for Tonic, Slink H/P, Belleza F/I/V, eBody, Maitreya, & Classic.  This long open semi-transparent silken robe is beautifully textured in a soft feminine pattern with contrast edging, held together by a wide sash in the contrast color.  Includes a matching thong. Available in 5 colors or a fatpack EXCLUSIVELY at the Designer Circle 20/19, open Oct 6th – 19th.  Demo available.
  • Mirror/Pose:  Poses by ALEXAMirror Pose Fatpack.  Wonderfully detailed classic-style wood-framed free-standing mirror, with 5 built in poses, one with a poisoned apple!  Available instore or on Marketplace.
  • Head:  Akeruka (AK) – Cleo (deluxe bento, now with BOM)
  • Body: Tonic – Curvy Beauty + Booty Control… truly the most natural curves on the grid with the ability to add that extra oomph how & if you want it!
  • Skin:  theSkinnery – Giulia (Freckled version)
  • Hair:  Truth – Cerys
  • Eyes:  IKON – Triumph
  • Lashes:  SlackGirl –  Thay Deluxe Lashes
  • Freckles:  Izzie’s – Heart Mole & Freckles (Omega)
  • Jewelry:  EarthStones – Sentiments Necklace; Chop Zuey – Bel Aire Gold Women’s Wedding Band